Welcome Will!

A few weeks ago I was blessed with my fourth grandchild! I can unequivocally say that there is no greater joy in this world. Of course, my Wedding day and the Births of my two girls rank right up there, but a grandchild is completely unique. It is amazing to watch your baby parent her baby.
For those of you that have not yet been blessed with becoming a grandparent, it's hard to describe the emotions. And for those of you that have been blessed already, you will recognize all that I feel.
  First let me site a quote by Frederick Douglas: In reference to raising children, he says:
"It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken (wo)men.


I trust that my girls and their husbands, who are bright, accomplished, incredible people will do their best to raise moral, strong, curious, and kind children. Where I come in, is to hopefully supplement those values; to increase their joy of life, to keep them engaged and curious about everything on this planet. I admit that in this world of smart phones, I pads, and television in every room that this can be a bit challenging. I try hard to communicate at each meal that we are together. No one should be looking at their phones and often parents and grandparents are the rule breakers. We must consciously set an example for the children and communicate with one another. And during bottle feeding, talk to your baby. Don't look at your phone. They can follow your voice and listen to you sing. I see Will responding to sound all day long. Believe me, it is so important!


  But most of all, I think a grandparent should show love unconditionally. No strings attached. I want to spoil them rotten, but teach them right from wrong at the same time.
Be kind to everyone. Cherish everyone's differences. Don't bully. Don't tattle. Be Respectful.
Study hard.
Don't lie.
Love School and Learning.
Love Camp and Playing.
Value Friends and Relatives.
Look people in the eye and say hello.


 I want to keep them safe (that means no Halloween Candy that can be unwrapped and rewrapped!), Take my hand when you cross the street, and don't run away from me in a parking lot.
Know your phone number and address. Don't get into a car with a stranger.
Don't jump in the bathtub! Don't jump off furniture! Don't swing from the chandelier!


I want to be there for them always. I want to listen and really hear what they say. I often ask how was your day? Now tell me the rose of the day-tell me the thorn. I want to encourage them to be confident in who they are and what they want to do.  I want them to always have fun with me.
But most of all, I want to be in their hearts.
And I want to be in their lives for as long as I can.


Each and every minute I spend with my four grandchildren is a blessing. I cherish them and how they have changed my life. It is an honor to be called Nonni.