I know I should be grateful for the roof over my head; the food on my table; that I have money to buy food for my table; for Netflix; for the good health of my husband, children, grandchildren, and my mom; BUT I am literally in a downward spiral mentally. I am totally losing it. Everything annoys me ALL the time. Everything. Maybe I should do yoga, but I don't want to. Maybe, I should go for a walk, but I don't want to. Maybe I should drink, but I don't want to.
What I want to do is GO OUT! I mean REALLY go out! To a show, to a bar, to the gym, to a restaurant, to a movie, to a ball game, to lunch with a friend, to a park, to a 7 Eleven with my grandsons for slurpees, to the mall, etc. etc. I want to hug and kiss my grandchildren. But, I can't. If I was Van Gogh, I probably would have cut off an ear by now. If I was Mike Tyson, I probably would've bitten off an ear by now. If I was Lorena Bobbitt, well you can finish that sentence. So my mind is inundated with all these crazed observations....
Are you ready?
If Covid 19 originated in the wet market of China and was transmitted from an animals to a human, THEN why are they saying on the latest news reports (last night) that the infected domestic cats and the Bronx zoo tigers in New York that have Covid 19, cannot spread the virus to humans? Viruses clearly move around between species. Why are they reporting that only humans can spread it to their pets, but not vice versa? This makes me nuts! Why doesn't someone explain this?
"I was never involved in a model at least this kind of model." Guess who said that? Yup - our President. The man who lacks empathy and competence and is a barely functional human and is throwing 2 hour MEGA rallies everyday. You can't open up the economy with DEAD people, NUM NUTS! Stop inciting governors to open up their states before the curve flattens.
Stop prescribing hydroxychloroquine-YOU ARE NOT A DOCTOR. YOU ARE NOT AN EPIDEMOLOGIST! YOU DON'T HAVE A F---ING CLUE. Please leave the medical questions to the scientists and doctors. Don't offer your opinion on this. And don't fire HHS Intelligence community Inspector General, Dr. Bright, because he disagrees with you unsubstantiated views on cures for the Coronavirus.
As far as the economy, why should anyone be listening to Donald Trump? This man's hotels and businesses have declared bankruptcy SIX times. Mitch McConnell encouraging bankruptcy instead of bailouts is totally irresponsible. Remember, McConnell wasn't in favor of compensation funds for 9/11 victims or Hurricane Sandy relief aid. Contrary to his belief, these are not blue state issues. And, to the wealthy population out there who support this orange man (Trump) and his ignorant majority leader, why do you care if they open the economy now or wait a bit longer until this virus flattens? Shouldn't we be more concerned with saving lives? You have enough money to sustain your way of living-it should not be as important to the millionaires as it is to the small businesses, first responders and health care workers who are trying to stay afloat, trying to pay their bills or to pay their employees and trying to feed their families? If you have so much money and care so much about the economy, why don't you figure out a way to support the businesses in your local community-how about some anonymous donations?
And, just for the record President Trump, the U.S. has not provided more testing than any other country. The U.S. has 327 million people. As of now, 1 in 273 people are being tested in the U.S.
In Italy, where they have 60 million people, 1 in 133 people are tested. The U.S. may have conducted the most tests, BUT NOT PER CAPITA. In South Korea with a population of 51.5 million people, they test 1 in every 119 people. In Germany with 82.8 million people, they test 1 in 90 people.
So stop the rant everyday about your amazing ventilators and your incredible testing. I can't take it!
Now let's get to the Ray Donovan of the Trump Administration. His FIXER! You guessed it-William Barr. He's the man who compared coronavirus shutdowns to house arrest. He incites Governors to liberate their states along with Trump. Barr has done serious damage to the law of our country.
And, why isn't anyone talking about the long awaited 3 year review led by the Republican-led Senate Intelligence Committee that unanimously found that Russia did in fact interfere with elections? Shame on Trump for badmouthing/firing all the intelligence people working for the U.S.
Nursing Homes-where do I begin? I am totally freaked out. So far, there have been 7 deaths in my mom's assisted living facility. Presently another 5-7 people tested positive. She has been in isolation as long as I have. I worry every minute about her and that she is all alone. I often visit outside her window, fill her pillboxes in the parking lot like a drug dealer, and supply food each week so she has some treats every now and then. If I remove her, she cannot return until phase 3 is over. That could be June or July. I don't have a set up conducive to her staying in my home: 2 flights of stairs(she uses a walker), no walk in shower, and I don't use heat. Plus if I remove her, she must be quarantined for 14 days in a room in my home. So, it is with tremendous anxiety and guilt that I ask myself each day if I am doing right by her.
My hair is another issue (albeit a much less important one than the topics that preceded this rant). Tomorrow I go to the salon where they have premixed my hair color and have arranged an outside cash exchange for the color mixture. Then I go home and apply! Waalah-no roots!
A cousin of ours in Florida woke up today and was so excited to see that for the first time in weeks, the headline on the front page wasn't about Coronavirus. He was elated until he read the headline:
2020 Atlantic Hurricane Season Expected to be "above average". What the F--k?
So what do I do if I have a tooth ache, appendicitis, a large itchy raised bump on my neck (not a hickey), a finger that got caught in my shredder (true); what if my oven, refrigerator, or microwave breaks? Some of these things have occurred and some will in the future. I am sure of it! These are just a few more things that keep me reeling...and wide awake.
When can we see the dentist, the dermatologist-(fillers and botox are really taking a hit), the a/c servicing guy? I keep rescheduling appointments in hopes that we can do these things in a month. And Chicos -don't worry. I know your stores have been boarded up and closed, but I swear when we all emerge from our homes 20 lbs. heavier, those elastic waist clothes will totally be in vogue.
The Mayor of Las Vegas-has anyone had the fortune of watching Anderson Cooper interview Mayor Goodman on CNN on Wednesday? YOU MUST WATCH! She is insane. Very funny to watch. But very sad for the union workers in Vegas who disagree with her calling for casinos to reopen in this pandemic. She was completely unraveled......And FYI, the Governor totally disagrees with her. Thank God for that! Anderson Cooper was amazing.
Governor Cuomo-What is there to say? You should be President. Your daily conferences are the best. You instill calm, empathy, insight, and knowledge in the Northeast. We need you to run. We are lucky to have you as the voice of reason in this crazy world.
Ok-you all know what comes next. It's the only thing that gets me through the nights. What am I watching now you may ask? Here it is:
Belgravia-Epix. The story of secrets and scandals among the upper class of London during the 19th century. Juicy. If you liked Downton Abbey, you'll enjoy.
Unorthodox-Netflix. Hasidic Jewish woman living in Brooklyn runs away to Germany to escape her marriage. Very good.
Breeders-FX or Hulu. The paradoxical story of a couple who adore their young children, but often run out of patience with them. Clever and well done.
Fauda-Netflix. I don't watch it, but everyone I know does. And the third season is starting. Enjoy!
Better Things-FX. In my opinion (feel free to disagree), this is the BEST written show on tv. I love every second of every episode. As a mom of daughters, and also having an elderly mom, I relate
to so much of this. I command you to watch. And you can start with this season. You don't have to watch previous seasons if you don't want.
Schitt's Creek-POP TV or Hulu. I am so sad. The final season has ended. One of the funniest and most clever shows out there. Totally worth the time. You will not be sorry. Catherine O'Hara is the bomb.
Ms. America-Hulu. The story of the movement to ratify the ERA. Seen through the eyes of the feminists of the time and the conservative women's movement against them. Great cast. So far, it's very good.
I Know This Much Is True- Premieres May 10 on HBO. Based on the novel by Wally Lamb.
Defending Jacob-Apple Tv+. Teenager charged with first degree murder. Premieres tomorrow. Didn't get great reviews. Judge for yourself.
Bad Education-premieres on HBO this Saturday. Unpredictable and real life story about a superintendent of Roslyn School District. Starring Hugh Jackman and Allison Janney. GREAT REVIEWS. Get some popcorn and wine. Another Saturday night at home won't seem so bad!
To all of you out there-I pray for your health, safety, and mental well being. Until I need to rant again-
PEACE OUT-ONE B
Thursday, April 23, 2020
Thursday, March 19, 2020
ONE B'S CORONA PLAYLIST
I'm Back! What has it been? Two days since my last blog? In the past 4 days, I have done a thorough cleaning of my home (my housekeeper is "working from home and sent instructions on what I should do!"); cleaned out all my closets, and refolded everything; changed the sheets; rearranged my spices and organized my pantry; cooked every meal, and some have been pretty impressive; dyed my own grey roots-not so impressive(!); watched 3 zillion Law and Orders; and gone outside for long walks.
On these walks I need something to listen to, so I have created a playlist for this crazy time in our chaotic and yet boring lives.
Here it is:
1) A CHANGE IS GONNA COME-SAM COOKE. "so tired of standing by myself/And standing up alone/A change has gotta come."
2) A CHANGE WOULD DO YOU GOOD-SHERYL CROW. "I think a change would do you good."
3) ALL I WANT-JONI MITCHELL. "I wanna be strong I wanna laugh along I wanna belong to the living."
4) APRIL COME SHE WILL-SIMON AND GARFUNKEL. "April, come she will/When streams are ripe and swelled with rain."
5) ARE YOU LONESOME TONIGHT-ELVIS. "Does your memory stray to a brighter sunny day."
6) BAD MOON RISING-CREEDENCE CLEARWATER. "I see trouble on the way/I see earthquakes and lightnin'/I see bad times today."
7) CHANGES-DAVID BOWIE. "Time may change me/But I can't trace time."
8) DOCTOR DOCTOR-ROBERT PALMER. Doctor Doctor, give me the news.."
9) DON'T STAND SO CLOSE TO ME-POLICE. "Don't stand, don't stand so/Don't stand so close to me."
10) DON'T STOP THINKING ABOUT TOMORROW-FLEETWOOD MAC. Don't stop, it'll soon be here/it'll be, better than before/ Yesterday's gone, yesterday's gone."
11) ELEANOR RIGBY-THE BEATLES. "All the lonely people/ where do they all belong?"
12) HOLD ON-WILSON PHILLIPS. "Things'll go your way/If you hold on for one more day."
13) HOT BLOODED-FOREIGNER. "I'm hot blooded, check it and see/I got a fever of a hundred and three.
14) I MADE IT THROUGH THE RAIN-BARRY MANILOW. "Sometimes you feel so afraid/ Just aim beyond the clouds/ And rise above the crowds/And start your own parade."
15) I'M STILL STANDING-ELTON JOHN. "Don't you know I'm still standing better than I ever did/ Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid."
16) IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD AS WE KNOW IT-R.E.M. "It's the end of the world as we know it and I feel fine."
17) I'VE BEEN LONELY TOO LONG-THE YOUNG RASCALS. "I keep hopin' with all my mind/Everything gonna turn out right/ I've been lonely too long,"
18) I WILL SURVIVE-GLORIA GAYNOR. "At first I was afraid, I was petrified/And I grew strong/ And I learned how to get along."
19) KEEP HOLDING ON-AVRIL LAVIGNE. "Keep holding on/'cause you know we'll make it through."
20) KING OF PAIN-STING. "There's a little black spot on the sun today/It's the same old thing as yesterday."
21) LONESOME DAY-BRUCE SPRINGSTEEN. "This too shall pass, I'm gonna pray/Right now all I got's this lonesome day."
22) LONG AND WINDING ROAD-THE BEATLES. "Many times I've been alone/ And many times I've cried."
23) ONE IS THE LONLIEST NUMBER-THREE DOG NIGHT. "One is the loneliest number that you'll ever do/ No is the saddest experience you'll ever know/ Yes it's the saddest experience you'll ever know."
24) ONLY THE LONELY-ROY ORBISON. "Only the lonely know the way I feel tonight/Only the lonely know this feeling ain't right."
25) ROLL WITH IT-STEVE WINWOOD. "When this world turns its back on you/Hang in and do that sweet thing you do/ You just roll with it, baby."
26) SATURDAY NIGHT-FRANK SINATRA. "Saturday night is the loneliest night in the week/'Cause that's the night that my sweetie and I/Used to dance cheek to cheek."
27) SO FAR AWAY-CAROL KING. "Long ago I reached for you and there you stood./Holding you again could only do me good/Oh how I wish I could but you're so far away.
28) SOMEBODY GET ME A DOCTOR-VAN HALEN. "Somebody get me a doctor, aw, aw/ Oh, somebody give me a shot."
29) STRONGER-KELLY CLARKSON. "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger/Stand a little taller/What doesn't kill you makes a fighter/ Footsteps even lighter."
30) THE ONLY LIVING BOY IN NEW YORK CITY-SIMON AND GARFUNKEL. "Hey, I've got nothing to do today but smile/Do-n-doh-d-doh-n-doh and here I am/The only living boy in New York."
31) WE GOTTA GET OUT OF THIS PLACE-THE ANIMALS. "We gotta get out of this place if it's the last thing we ever do."
32) WHEN WILL I BE LOVED-EVERLY BROTHERS. "I've been made blue, I've been lied to/ When will I be loved."
33) YOU GOTTA BE-DES'REE. "Listen as your day unfolds/Challenge what the future holds/ Try and keep your head up to the sky/You gotta be cool, you gotta be calm/You gotta stay together."
34) WE SHALL OVERCOME-HAMILTON, HART, CARAWAN, SEEGER.
"We shall overcome,
We shall overcome, some day
Oh, deep in my heart,
I do believe
We'll walk hand in hand, some day."
For all of you out there hanging out, I hope this unexpected time at home brings you calm, peace, and hope. We still can be productive in many ways. We will get through this.
But, I won't lie. Each day I wake with my stomach churning. As I sit glued to three news channels from 5 to 8 a.m., I can't help but worry about my husband, my children, my grandchildren, my mom, my sister, my nieces and nephews, my relatives, my cherished friends, and truthfully, all of the U.S. population. My anxiety does not wane. What I want is for all of you to be safe and to stay healthy. What I want is for businesses to reopen, and people not to lose money, or their life savings, or their jobs. What I want is for hospitals and health workers to have the ability to help everyone that becomes ill and stay well while helping others. What I want is for no one to die from this virus.
Please stay home if you can. Call your friends, your parents, your kids.
Listen to music. Read! Bake! Exercise! Have sex! Drink! Dance! Laugh! Keep your spirits up.
AND REMEMBER THAT STRESSED SPELLED BACKWARDS SPELLS
DESSERTS!
PEACE OUT! ONE B
On these walks I need something to listen to, so I have created a playlist for this crazy time in our chaotic and yet boring lives.
Here it is:
1) A CHANGE IS GONNA COME-SAM COOKE. "so tired of standing by myself/And standing up alone/A change has gotta come."
2) A CHANGE WOULD DO YOU GOOD-SHERYL CROW. "I think a change would do you good."
3) ALL I WANT-JONI MITCHELL. "I wanna be strong I wanna laugh along I wanna belong to the living."
4) APRIL COME SHE WILL-SIMON AND GARFUNKEL. "April, come she will/When streams are ripe and swelled with rain."
5) ARE YOU LONESOME TONIGHT-ELVIS. "Does your memory stray to a brighter sunny day."
6) BAD MOON RISING-CREEDENCE CLEARWATER. "I see trouble on the way/I see earthquakes and lightnin'/I see bad times today."
7) CHANGES-DAVID BOWIE. "Time may change me/But I can't trace time."
8) DOCTOR DOCTOR-ROBERT PALMER. Doctor Doctor, give me the news.."
9) DON'T STAND SO CLOSE TO ME-POLICE. "Don't stand, don't stand so/Don't stand so close to me."
10) DON'T STOP THINKING ABOUT TOMORROW-FLEETWOOD MAC. Don't stop, it'll soon be here/it'll be, better than before/ Yesterday's gone, yesterday's gone."
11) ELEANOR RIGBY-THE BEATLES. "All the lonely people/ where do they all belong?"
12) HOLD ON-WILSON PHILLIPS. "Things'll go your way/If you hold on for one more day."
13) HOT BLOODED-FOREIGNER. "I'm hot blooded, check it and see/I got a fever of a hundred and three.
14) I MADE IT THROUGH THE RAIN-BARRY MANILOW. "Sometimes you feel so afraid/ Just aim beyond the clouds/ And rise above the crowds/And start your own parade."
15) I'M STILL STANDING-ELTON JOHN. "Don't you know I'm still standing better than I ever did/ Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid."
16) IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD AS WE KNOW IT-R.E.M. "It's the end of the world as we know it and I feel fine."
17) I'VE BEEN LONELY TOO LONG-THE YOUNG RASCALS. "I keep hopin' with all my mind/Everything gonna turn out right/ I've been lonely too long,"
18) I WILL SURVIVE-GLORIA GAYNOR. "At first I was afraid, I was petrified/And I grew strong/ And I learned how to get along."
19) KEEP HOLDING ON-AVRIL LAVIGNE. "Keep holding on/'cause you know we'll make it through."
20) KING OF PAIN-STING. "There's a little black spot on the sun today/It's the same old thing as yesterday."
21) LONESOME DAY-BRUCE SPRINGSTEEN. "This too shall pass, I'm gonna pray/Right now all I got's this lonesome day."
22) LONG AND WINDING ROAD-THE BEATLES. "Many times I've been alone/ And many times I've cried."
23) ONE IS THE LONLIEST NUMBER-THREE DOG NIGHT. "One is the loneliest number that you'll ever do/ No is the saddest experience you'll ever know/ Yes it's the saddest experience you'll ever know."
24) ONLY THE LONELY-ROY ORBISON. "Only the lonely know the way I feel tonight/Only the lonely know this feeling ain't right."
25) ROLL WITH IT-STEVE WINWOOD. "When this world turns its back on you/Hang in and do that sweet thing you do/ You just roll with it, baby."
26) SATURDAY NIGHT-FRANK SINATRA. "Saturday night is the loneliest night in the week/'Cause that's the night that my sweetie and I/Used to dance cheek to cheek."
27) SO FAR AWAY-CAROL KING. "Long ago I reached for you and there you stood./Holding you again could only do me good/Oh how I wish I could but you're so far away.
28) SOMEBODY GET ME A DOCTOR-VAN HALEN. "Somebody get me a doctor, aw, aw/ Oh, somebody give me a shot."
29) STRONGER-KELLY CLARKSON. "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger/Stand a little taller/What doesn't kill you makes a fighter/ Footsteps even lighter."
30) THE ONLY LIVING BOY IN NEW YORK CITY-SIMON AND GARFUNKEL. "Hey, I've got nothing to do today but smile/Do-n-doh-d-doh-n-doh and here I am/The only living boy in New York."
31) WE GOTTA GET OUT OF THIS PLACE-THE ANIMALS. "We gotta get out of this place if it's the last thing we ever do."
32) WHEN WILL I BE LOVED-EVERLY BROTHERS. "I've been made blue, I've been lied to/ When will I be loved."
33) YOU GOTTA BE-DES'REE. "Listen as your day unfolds/Challenge what the future holds/ Try and keep your head up to the sky/You gotta be cool, you gotta be calm/You gotta stay together."
34) WE SHALL OVERCOME-HAMILTON, HART, CARAWAN, SEEGER.
"We shall overcome,
We shall overcome, some day
Oh, deep in my heart,
I do believe
We'll walk hand in hand, some day."
For all of you out there hanging out, I hope this unexpected time at home brings you calm, peace, and hope. We still can be productive in many ways. We will get through this.
But, I won't lie. Each day I wake with my stomach churning. As I sit glued to three news channels from 5 to 8 a.m., I can't help but worry about my husband, my children, my grandchildren, my mom, my sister, my nieces and nephews, my relatives, my cherished friends, and truthfully, all of the U.S. population. My anxiety does not wane. What I want is for all of you to be safe and to stay healthy. What I want is for businesses to reopen, and people not to lose money, or their life savings, or their jobs. What I want is for hospitals and health workers to have the ability to help everyone that becomes ill and stay well while helping others. What I want is for no one to die from this virus.
Please stay home if you can. Call your friends, your parents, your kids.
Listen to music. Read! Bake! Exercise! Have sex! Drink! Dance! Laugh! Keep your spirits up.
AND REMEMBER THAT STRESSED SPELLED BACKWARDS SPELLS
DESSERTS!
PEACE OUT! ONE B
Monday, March 16, 2020
Be Prepared To Hunker Down.... INDEFINITELY
For those of you who already are experiencing cabin fever, I suggest you find some good books, binge watch some television, and cook some fabulous food. We are in for the very long haul. There is so much confusion as to what we can expect in future days, what has already happened, and how at risk we are . And, that confusion is directly due to our government not taking this seriously for weeks. Now, we are ALL in a fight against this enemy: Covid 19.
I can only write about what I personally know and what my experience has been.
First, I have a 93 year old mom in an assisted living facility. They have been slow at emailing, setting restrictions, and after weeks of wavering on rules, they have finally forbidden all visitors and will not allow residents to leave. Since I administer my mom's meds, I have to obtain special permission to try and go in once a week. Last night I asked if they would fill her pill boxes (there are 3 boxes; 16 pills; and 6am, 7am, 9:30 am, 4:30 pm, 6pm, and 9:30 pm administer times/ 6 sections in boxes). They responded that they didn't think so, even though they do offer that amenity for a fee. I'm unclear about this response and waiting for further clarification.
If any of you have felt symptoms and tried to get a coronavirus test, you are screwed. There are NO tests despite what you hear from President Trump. I have heard and watched a multitude of testimonies from people who have called their Dr. The Dr. doesn't allow them into their office. The Dr. says go to the ER. The ER says do not come here. The ER says go to your Urgent Care. You call
Urgent Care and they say go to the ER. Presently, it is a nightmare.
Eventually, we will have more tests, but it is way too little and way too late. Google Dan Goldman and watch his horrifying story about trying to get a test in NYC and ultimately, after 6 hours on a gurney in Columbia Presbyterian's hallway, they refused a test. He ended up driving to Connecticut and getting a test where he found out he was positive (as is his wife.)
Regardless of what you are hearing, this virus does not discriminate based on age, income, your general health, your political ideology, or your insurance plan. This is NOT a foreign illness.
Presently 50% of patients with the virus in the ICU are UNDER 60 years old. Many of my friends are 60 or older. They have children and grandchildren who they want to interact with. My children have now forbidden me from seeing them. This is extremely difficult for me. But I am respecting their instructions and FaceTime is my new best friend. My children's valid concern is that their children can be asymptomatic (as can adults-see the Mayor of Miami who tested positive with no symptoms) and pass the virus on to me or my husband.
Thirty and Forty year olds have also been getting very sick with this virus, and the doctors can't figure out why. Check out last Friday's NY Times story about the thirty- something nurse and thirty-something doctor who battled the illness in China. The doctor died (as did the original young "whistleblower doctor"). The nurse did survive but was extremely ill . They were all young and in excellent health. It is baffling and troubling why the young are having trouble fighting this virus.
According to polls, 30% of Republicans don't take this virus seriously. WAKE UP! This is not a political hoax. Look at what is going on all around you. Have you not been watching the news? Listen to Governor Cuomo and Dr. Fauci-they seem to be the voice of reason. Listen to the Governor of Illinois and his horror at the ineptness of the government handling the influx of people arriving at OHare yesterday. Listen to your local government. The Federal Government has been worthless.
In the United States, the Corona Virus cases have more than doubled since Friday. This pandemic will get much worse before it gets better. The hospitals and health workers will be overwhelmed. Our responsibility is to stay home with the hope of slowing the virus; to avoid contact with others as best we can; to keep hands clean; and to keep surfaces disinfected often. These are the places that should be disinfected often:
cell phones
light switches
remote controls
toilet and sink handles
door knobs
refrigerator and cabinet handles and coffee makers
alarm panels
car exterior handles, steering wheels, all interior buttons
computer keyboards and mouse
take out food containers, food packaging, packages and mail that are delivered
If you do venture out, please take your hand sanitizer and Clorox wipes with you in your car.
If you are able to purchase these items, do so:
disinfectant wipes, hand sanitizer, toilet tissue, Tylenol, frozen fruits, canned goods, medications, detergent, alcohol, thermometers, and paper towels. Have some extra cash on hand.
Please, for now, avoid dinner parties and play dates. Instead, let the kids play outside with their siblings. Take long walks, prepare theme dinners, make a great soup or a delicious dessert. Read a great book. Have a drink with dinner!
Many of you don't know this, but I sell life and long term care insurance. No one pays attention to buying Long term care insurance until you have a parent, a close relative, or a spouse who suddenly becomes ill and needs full time care. In other words, you don't purchase it until the problem hits close to home and smacks you upside of the head. Now, all of a sudden is the realization that you don't want to be a burden on your spouse or children. And Bingo, you buy Long Term Care Insurance.
I think the Coronavirus is a little like Long Term Care Insurance. Many of you won't take this seriously until it reaches a friend, a coworker, or a parent. PLEASE DO NOT WAIT. LISTEN NOW OR FACE AN ITALY-LIKE DEBACLE. WE ARE NOT FAR BEHIND THEM. You have a choice. Stay informed, be safe, practice social distancing so that you or a loved one doesn't get sick.
Finally, If you are looking for something new to watch on television:
Briarpatch- on USA. Monday at 11pm. An investigator returns to her home town to search for her sister's killer and finds a lot of corruption.
The Plot Against America-on HBO. Monday at 9pm. Based on Philip Roth's book where Lindbergh turns the nation towards facism.
Outmatched-on Hulu. A blue collar couple trying to raise their 4 children; 3 of whom are certified geniuses!
Praying for all of you to stay healthy. Take this time to enjoy the people you are at home with. Cherish and Love one another. And above all, try to stay calm. Peace out-ONE B
I can only write about what I personally know and what my experience has been.
First, I have a 93 year old mom in an assisted living facility. They have been slow at emailing, setting restrictions, and after weeks of wavering on rules, they have finally forbidden all visitors and will not allow residents to leave. Since I administer my mom's meds, I have to obtain special permission to try and go in once a week. Last night I asked if they would fill her pill boxes (there are 3 boxes; 16 pills; and 6am, 7am, 9:30 am, 4:30 pm, 6pm, and 9:30 pm administer times/ 6 sections in boxes). They responded that they didn't think so, even though they do offer that amenity for a fee. I'm unclear about this response and waiting for further clarification.
If any of you have felt symptoms and tried to get a coronavirus test, you are screwed. There are NO tests despite what you hear from President Trump. I have heard and watched a multitude of testimonies from people who have called their Dr. The Dr. doesn't allow them into their office. The Dr. says go to the ER. The ER says do not come here. The ER says go to your Urgent Care. You call
Urgent Care and they say go to the ER. Presently, it is a nightmare.
Eventually, we will have more tests, but it is way too little and way too late. Google Dan Goldman and watch his horrifying story about trying to get a test in NYC and ultimately, after 6 hours on a gurney in Columbia Presbyterian's hallway, they refused a test. He ended up driving to Connecticut and getting a test where he found out he was positive (as is his wife.)
Regardless of what you are hearing, this virus does not discriminate based on age, income, your general health, your political ideology, or your insurance plan. This is NOT a foreign illness.
Presently 50% of patients with the virus in the ICU are UNDER 60 years old. Many of my friends are 60 or older. They have children and grandchildren who they want to interact with. My children have now forbidden me from seeing them. This is extremely difficult for me. But I am respecting their instructions and FaceTime is my new best friend. My children's valid concern is that their children can be asymptomatic (as can adults-see the Mayor of Miami who tested positive with no symptoms) and pass the virus on to me or my husband.
Thirty and Forty year olds have also been getting very sick with this virus, and the doctors can't figure out why. Check out last Friday's NY Times story about the thirty- something nurse and thirty-something doctor who battled the illness in China. The doctor died (as did the original young "whistleblower doctor"). The nurse did survive but was extremely ill . They were all young and in excellent health. It is baffling and troubling why the young are having trouble fighting this virus.
According to polls, 30% of Republicans don't take this virus seriously. WAKE UP! This is not a political hoax. Look at what is going on all around you. Have you not been watching the news? Listen to Governor Cuomo and Dr. Fauci-they seem to be the voice of reason. Listen to the Governor of Illinois and his horror at the ineptness of the government handling the influx of people arriving at OHare yesterday. Listen to your local government. The Federal Government has been worthless.
In the United States, the Corona Virus cases have more than doubled since Friday. This pandemic will get much worse before it gets better. The hospitals and health workers will be overwhelmed. Our responsibility is to stay home with the hope of slowing the virus; to avoid contact with others as best we can; to keep hands clean; and to keep surfaces disinfected often. These are the places that should be disinfected often:
cell phones
light switches
remote controls
toilet and sink handles
door knobs
refrigerator and cabinet handles and coffee makers
alarm panels
car exterior handles, steering wheels, all interior buttons
computer keyboards and mouse
take out food containers, food packaging, packages and mail that are delivered
If you do venture out, please take your hand sanitizer and Clorox wipes with you in your car.
If you are able to purchase these items, do so:
disinfectant wipes, hand sanitizer, toilet tissue, Tylenol, frozen fruits, canned goods, medications, detergent, alcohol, thermometers, and paper towels. Have some extra cash on hand.
Please, for now, avoid dinner parties and play dates. Instead, let the kids play outside with their siblings. Take long walks, prepare theme dinners, make a great soup or a delicious dessert. Read a great book. Have a drink with dinner!
Many of you don't know this, but I sell life and long term care insurance. No one pays attention to buying Long term care insurance until you have a parent, a close relative, or a spouse who suddenly becomes ill and needs full time care. In other words, you don't purchase it until the problem hits close to home and smacks you upside of the head. Now, all of a sudden is the realization that you don't want to be a burden on your spouse or children. And Bingo, you buy Long Term Care Insurance.
I think the Coronavirus is a little like Long Term Care Insurance. Many of you won't take this seriously until it reaches a friend, a coworker, or a parent. PLEASE DO NOT WAIT. LISTEN NOW OR FACE AN ITALY-LIKE DEBACLE. WE ARE NOT FAR BEHIND THEM. You have a choice. Stay informed, be safe, practice social distancing so that you or a loved one doesn't get sick.
Finally, If you are looking for something new to watch on television:
Briarpatch- on USA. Monday at 11pm. An investigator returns to her home town to search for her sister's killer and finds a lot of corruption.
The Plot Against America-on HBO. Monday at 9pm. Based on Philip Roth's book where Lindbergh turns the nation towards facism.
Outmatched-on Hulu. A blue collar couple trying to raise their 4 children; 3 of whom are certified geniuses!
Praying for all of you to stay healthy. Take this time to enjoy the people you are at home with. Cherish and Love one another. And above all, try to stay calm. Peace out-ONE B
Friday, March 6, 2020
Diners, Dives, Desserts AND some television
With all the fuss about the coronavirus, I am not sure how many of you are opting to eat out these days. However, we will eventually get cabin fever and need to have a change of scenery. My dining preference is always to patronize a dive with good food, rather than a fancy schmancy restaurant with one too many ingredients on every entrée. These spots are not necessarily dives but very low key delicious establishments. I'm hesitant to share them because it might make it more difficult to eat there once I do.
TOPS-my favorite diner of all time. Way better than the Chit Chat. Located in East Newark, this spot is ALWAYS packed and there is always a wait. But, well worth it. Open till midnight every night, it's the perfect place to go after an event at the Prudential Center. Everything is delicious! 500 Passaic Ave., East Newark.
HONEY'S KITCHEN-this tiny place makes fresh and delicious breakfasts and lunches. Open every day except Sunday. You won't be disappointed. 48 Clinton Rd., Fairfield.
ZI ZIA-from the outside it looks like a pizzeria (which one side is) but once you walk in, there is also a small restaurant on one side. The chef is a real foodie and his entire menu is great as well as his specials. They will accommodate any requests, and Patty is a great waitress! Be prepared to wait at peak dinner hours. Love it here. BYO. 80 Bay Ave., Bloomfield.
SHILELAGH PUB-an unexpected fun spot to grab a drink and light bar food. Inexpensive burgers, bar pizza, fries, wings, etc. Often, there is a cocktail of the week or a beer promotion. Super cheap fare and music on most weekend nights. It's a fun diversion. And it's open super late Monday through Saturday. 648 Prospect Ave., West Orange.
CASA VASCA-Hands down this is my favorite Portuguese restaurant in down neck Newark. I literally could eat here every night. The food here is fabulous. I always eat way too much! The potatoes (chips) that come with the garlic shrimp are amazing! Paella is great and so are all the other entrees. Go hungry-leave very full. There is a deceiving divey bar at front, and the restaurant is through a door beyond the bar. Sometimes they will take a res. Free parking! 141 Elm Street, Newark.
SPIGA-I discovered this place (which is not a dive) because of the New Jersey Housewives! They take a res. The food is delicious and the owners are welcoming. Totally worth the drive to Totowa. BYO. 331 Union Blvd., Totowa.
And if you are into a bit more upscale, try ALLEGORY at the new MC Hotel. The bar area and the food menu is lovely. 690 Bloomfield Ave., Montclair.
Also, FAUBOURG has a wonderful menu and bar. Open for Sunday Brunch and dinner Monday-Sunday. Located at 544 Bloomfield Ave. Montclair. Check it out!
NOW FOR A LITTLE DESSERT.....
NERO'S-try their Candy Sundae or the Carrot Cake ( which is ginormous, and I can eat the whole thing!). 618 S. Livingston Ave. Livingston.
THE RITZ-known for their Apple Pie! It's nice to bring to someone's house for dessert. Delicious warmed with a scoop of ice cream on top. 72 E. Mt. Pleasant Ave. Livingston.
HOLSTEN'S-where the last scene of The Soprano's took place. Reminiscent of Grunnings, but no where as good. Candy and Ice cream are just fair. 1063 Broad Street, Bloomfield.
SPICE BAZAAR-an Indian restaurant seems like an unusual spot for a great dessert. However, the
chocolate ball smash is created tableside. I can't begin to describe it-ice cream enclosed in a hard shell of chocolate with various sauces and fruits-then it's smashed to share. Yummy and fun...39 Elm Street, Westfield.
ZI ZIA-with an advance call, they will prepare a nutella birthday pizza. Chock full of nutella, candy, and fruit, this looks amazing! You need to eat it on the same day though! 80 Bay Ave., Bloomfield.
SHOP RITE-only this store in Nutley makes this famous Donoli. This is a delicious donut filled with cannoli cream. Heaven. 437 Franklin Ave., Nutley.
ESSEX COUNTY COUNTRY CLUB-for those of you who have the opportunity to eat here, remember to stay for dessert. Order the donuts and dipping sauces. You cannot eat just one. You will inhale three of them before you know it! 350 Mt. Pleasant Ave., West Orange.
OK-IF YOU JUST WANT TO HAVE A RELAXING NIGHT AT HOME AND BE A COUCH POTATO, THERE IS PLENTY TO CHOOSE FROM:
HILLARY-Streaming on Hulu now. A mesmerizing docuseries about Hillary and Bill. Extremely insightful with candid interviews.
CURB YOUR ENTHUSIASM-HBO. This season is beyond hysterical. Leon is the best character of all time. I cannot get enough of this show. I love Sunday nights now!
SCHITT'S CREEK-POP OR NETFLIX. You can watch the earlier seasons on Netflix, but not the new season. I think this is one of the funniest shows on television. Catherine O'Hara is exceptional, as is the rest of the cast. Quirky and great!
GRACE AND FRANKIE- NETFLIX. Just finished season six. What can be bad about Jane Fonda and Lily Tomlin? It's a light, easy to binge, enchanting comedy.
UNBELIEVABLE-NETFLIX. Toni Collette and Merritt Wever are two detectives trying to find the rapist of four victims. Really excellent crime show. Only 8 episodes. I thought this was great!
BETTER CALL SAUL-AMC. Season 6 now streaming. I have watched this series from the beginning. Jimmy McGill is a small time attorney who reverts back to Saul Goodman this season, as an ace (slimy) attorney for criminals. Bob Odenkirk is a joy to watch.
HUNTERS-AMAZON PRIME. Nazi hunters discover hundreds of high ranking Nazis in NYC in 1977. Al Pacino stars. There's been a lot of hype about this show. I find it increasingly difficult to continue watching. Clearly, the subject matter is difficult, but so is the violence of the Hunters towards the Nazis. It is very graphic-beware. You will need to avert your eyes OFTEN.
THE STRANGER-NETFLIX. If you are a fan of Harlan Coben, you will enjoy watching this mystery/thriller series. A wife goes missing and in the husband's search to find her, many secrets are revealed. It's just fair, but you keep watching anyway.
BETTER THINGS-FX. Season 3 just started. Pamela Adlon is an actress and single mom raising 3 girls in LA, and also caring for an elderly mom who lives across the street. One of the best written shows on television. Raw honesty and humor. Really love this!
And Coming Soon:
LITTLE FIRES EVERYWHERE-HULU. Starring Reese Witherspoon and Kerry Washington. An adaptation of the book. Supposedly not great. Debuts March 18.
BREEDERS-FX OR HULU. The comedy series explores "the paradox that every parent knows but never admits: you would willingly die for your children, but often you also want to kill them."
I've given you lots of distractions from Politics and the Corona Virus.
PEACE OUT-ONE B
TOPS-my favorite diner of all time. Way better than the Chit Chat. Located in East Newark, this spot is ALWAYS packed and there is always a wait. But, well worth it. Open till midnight every night, it's the perfect place to go after an event at the Prudential Center. Everything is delicious! 500 Passaic Ave., East Newark.
HONEY'S KITCHEN-this tiny place makes fresh and delicious breakfasts and lunches. Open every day except Sunday. You won't be disappointed. 48 Clinton Rd., Fairfield.
ZI ZIA-from the outside it looks like a pizzeria (which one side is) but once you walk in, there is also a small restaurant on one side. The chef is a real foodie and his entire menu is great as well as his specials. They will accommodate any requests, and Patty is a great waitress! Be prepared to wait at peak dinner hours. Love it here. BYO. 80 Bay Ave., Bloomfield.
SHILELAGH PUB-an unexpected fun spot to grab a drink and light bar food. Inexpensive burgers, bar pizza, fries, wings, etc. Often, there is a cocktail of the week or a beer promotion. Super cheap fare and music on most weekend nights. It's a fun diversion. And it's open super late Monday through Saturday. 648 Prospect Ave., West Orange.
CASA VASCA-Hands down this is my favorite Portuguese restaurant in down neck Newark. I literally could eat here every night. The food here is fabulous. I always eat way too much! The potatoes (chips) that come with the garlic shrimp are amazing! Paella is great and so are all the other entrees. Go hungry-leave very full. There is a deceiving divey bar at front, and the restaurant is through a door beyond the bar. Sometimes they will take a res. Free parking! 141 Elm Street, Newark.
SPIGA-I discovered this place (which is not a dive) because of the New Jersey Housewives! They take a res. The food is delicious and the owners are welcoming. Totally worth the drive to Totowa. BYO. 331 Union Blvd., Totowa.
And if you are into a bit more upscale, try ALLEGORY at the new MC Hotel. The bar area and the food menu is lovely. 690 Bloomfield Ave., Montclair.
Also, FAUBOURG has a wonderful menu and bar. Open for Sunday Brunch and dinner Monday-Sunday. Located at 544 Bloomfield Ave. Montclair. Check it out!
NOW FOR A LITTLE DESSERT.....
NERO'S-try their Candy Sundae or the Carrot Cake ( which is ginormous, and I can eat the whole thing!). 618 S. Livingston Ave. Livingston.
THE RITZ-known for their Apple Pie! It's nice to bring to someone's house for dessert. Delicious warmed with a scoop of ice cream on top. 72 E. Mt. Pleasant Ave. Livingston.
HOLSTEN'S-where the last scene of The Soprano's took place. Reminiscent of Grunnings, but no where as good. Candy and Ice cream are just fair. 1063 Broad Street, Bloomfield.
SPICE BAZAAR-an Indian restaurant seems like an unusual spot for a great dessert. However, the
chocolate ball smash is created tableside. I can't begin to describe it-ice cream enclosed in a hard shell of chocolate with various sauces and fruits-then it's smashed to share. Yummy and fun...39 Elm Street, Westfield.
ZI ZIA-with an advance call, they will prepare a nutella birthday pizza. Chock full of nutella, candy, and fruit, this looks amazing! You need to eat it on the same day though! 80 Bay Ave., Bloomfield.
SHOP RITE-only this store in Nutley makes this famous Donoli. This is a delicious donut filled with cannoli cream. Heaven. 437 Franklin Ave., Nutley.
ESSEX COUNTY COUNTRY CLUB-for those of you who have the opportunity to eat here, remember to stay for dessert. Order the donuts and dipping sauces. You cannot eat just one. You will inhale three of them before you know it! 350 Mt. Pleasant Ave., West Orange.
OK-IF YOU JUST WANT TO HAVE A RELAXING NIGHT AT HOME AND BE A COUCH POTATO, THERE IS PLENTY TO CHOOSE FROM:
HILLARY-Streaming on Hulu now. A mesmerizing docuseries about Hillary and Bill. Extremely insightful with candid interviews.
CURB YOUR ENTHUSIASM-HBO. This season is beyond hysterical. Leon is the best character of all time. I cannot get enough of this show. I love Sunday nights now!
SCHITT'S CREEK-POP OR NETFLIX. You can watch the earlier seasons on Netflix, but not the new season. I think this is one of the funniest shows on television. Catherine O'Hara is exceptional, as is the rest of the cast. Quirky and great!
GRACE AND FRANKIE- NETFLIX. Just finished season six. What can be bad about Jane Fonda and Lily Tomlin? It's a light, easy to binge, enchanting comedy.
UNBELIEVABLE-NETFLIX. Toni Collette and Merritt Wever are two detectives trying to find the rapist of four victims. Really excellent crime show. Only 8 episodes. I thought this was great!
BETTER CALL SAUL-AMC. Season 6 now streaming. I have watched this series from the beginning. Jimmy McGill is a small time attorney who reverts back to Saul Goodman this season, as an ace (slimy) attorney for criminals. Bob Odenkirk is a joy to watch.
HUNTERS-AMAZON PRIME. Nazi hunters discover hundreds of high ranking Nazis in NYC in 1977. Al Pacino stars. There's been a lot of hype about this show. I find it increasingly difficult to continue watching. Clearly, the subject matter is difficult, but so is the violence of the Hunters towards the Nazis. It is very graphic-beware. You will need to avert your eyes OFTEN.
THE STRANGER-NETFLIX. If you are a fan of Harlan Coben, you will enjoy watching this mystery/thriller series. A wife goes missing and in the husband's search to find her, many secrets are revealed. It's just fair, but you keep watching anyway.
BETTER THINGS-FX. Season 3 just started. Pamela Adlon is an actress and single mom raising 3 girls in LA, and also caring for an elderly mom who lives across the street. One of the best written shows on television. Raw honesty and humor. Really love this!
And Coming Soon:
LITTLE FIRES EVERYWHERE-HULU. Starring Reese Witherspoon and Kerry Washington. An adaptation of the book. Supposedly not great. Debuts March 18.
BREEDERS-FX OR HULU. The comedy series explores "the paradox that every parent knows but never admits: you would willingly die for your children, but often you also want to kill them."
I've given you lots of distractions from Politics and the Corona Virus.
PEACE OUT-ONE B
Monday, February 10, 2020
The Oscars 2020 -Fashion, Jewels, Final Thoughts
BEST DRESSED:
Penelope Cruz-For me, she was the most stunning woman on the red carpet. That high low black Chanel Couture dress with the pearl belt was BEYOND! Her hair and makeup were flawless. No one could come close to her perfection.
Margot Robbie-Another beautiful Chanel black dress. This was vintage 1994 and looked sensational. The embellished bodice was exquisite and so was her hair and makeup.
Charleze Theron-Again, I vote for the black dress! This couture Dior ball gown with the thigh high slit looked beautiful and so well tailored to her body. Her necklace from Tiffany was my favorite of the night (we'll get to that later), and the slicked back hair was just right for the look.
HONORABLE MENTION:
Renee Zelwegger-The fit of this white one - shouldered Armani Prive was sublime. I just wish she had added a pop of color to her cheeks and lips. Natural is one thing, but she looked svah.... too pale. And her hair needed help.
Cynthia Erivo-She looked great in the Versace jewel encrusted gown. And, accessorized with lots of Piaget diamonds (maybe a few too many rings and earrings!). Such an amazing singer and actress. Love her.
Regina King-Adorned in a powder pink Versace gown, she looked beautiful. The Harry Winston jewels didn't hurt the look either. And the fit of the gown was spectacular-don't waste a waist!
Rebel Wilson-Exuding old world glamor wearing a gold sequined Jason Wu gown and side parted hair, red lips, and a beautiful Pomellato necklace-Spot on!
FAVORITE JEWELS (MY FAVORITE PART)
CHARLEZE THERON-loved the 5 million dollar marquise necklace from Tiffany. I'm not usually a marquis fan but this did the trick. Gorgeous!
MINDY KALING-another beautiful necklace with marquis stones that was a take off on the one from Ocean's 8. This 124 Carat piece was made by Chopard and was the perfect accessory to her Dolce and Gabana yellow gown.
ZAZIE BEETZ-She wore TWO Bulgari necklaces featuring diamonds and emeralds totaling over 97 carats. These were show stoppers. Who says less is more? This look was INCREDIBLE!
GRETA GERWIG-Did I say this was the best neck piece of the night? It just doesn't get any better than emeralds and diamonds. This Bulgari vintage "looking" piece was a stunner. Every girl needs this in her wardrobe, and it was majestically beautiful with her custom strapless, Dior haute couture gown.
JANELLE MONAE-Who could even notice this Forevermark necklace with that crazy silver hooded Ralph Lauren gown? The necklace was everything.....the gown not so much!
Olivia Coleman-simple but elegant emerald and diamond earrings. Loved them and would wear them with jeans.
SCARLETT JOHANSSON-Donning $2.1 million diamond earrings by Forevermark. These were amazing from every angle. Round and pear shaped diamonds were just exquisite.
DIDN'T LIKE THE LOOK- IT JUST DIDN'T COME TOGETHER:
SANDRA OH-Ellie Saab gown with overpowering sleeves and under wowing hair. Hated the look.
SAOIRSE RONAN-sustainable Gucci? Really? That peplum could have held her laptop! I just didn't get this look. The ugly earrings, the bumblebee brooch in her hair, and the bangs. Avert your eyes-too much.
LAURA DERN-Usually, I think she is one of the best dressed women in Hollywood. But this soft pink Armani Prive with the black crystal beads on the boobs-OY VAY. Terrible! I did not like the hair or the makeup either. Loved her speech though.
SELMA HAYAK-Wasn't a fan of the Gucci gown on her body type. The dress accentuated her bust too much. The Boucheron necklace in her hair was horrendous. And, I never think matching jewelry ensembles are a good idea. The earrings and bracelet that matched that headpiece were definite no nos.
Brie Larsen-Loved her hair and makeup, but I wasn't digging the dress. It seemed too matronly.
Rooney Mara-Her whole look was too gothic for me. She looks like she should be starring in a Twilight movie or living in a coffin. Scary!
FINAL THOUGHTS:
BRAD PITT-Need I say more? This man is GORGEOUS-STILL.
OPENING NUMBER BY JANELLE MONAE-Wow-she rocked the house. I don't know who she is but she was Fab!
STEVE MARTIN AND CHRIS ROCK-They were hysterical. Chris Rock CRUSHED IT! He should've hosted.
KRISTIN WIIG AND MAYA RUDOLPH-They were awesome. Funny, irreverent and exhibited great chemistry. Billie Eilish-shame on you.
JOAQUIN PHOENIX'S ACCEPTANCE SPEECH-Cra-cra! The guy is a lunatic; quickly unraveling like the Joker. I am not necessarily disagreeing with his views. But the inseminated cow topic was really weird for this show. He should have just gone with the quote from his brother, River. "Run to the rescue with love and peace will follow."
Finally, if you have not seen Renee Zellwegger in Judy-YOU MUST. IT IS AN AWARD WINNING PERFORMANCE. BREATHTAKING AND SAD AND EXTRAORDINARY.
If you have not seen The Two Popes-DO! Jonathan Pryce and Anthony Hopkins were superb. Loved this film.
Hair Love-this short animation is worth googling. Simply brilliant and adorable. Watch it now.
Parasite-I saw it. It is difficult to watch, but I NEED to watch it one more time. It is a brilliant social satire that needs to be seen. I loved Bong Joon-Ho's speeches at the Oscars and how he payed homage to Scorsese and Tarentino.
Happy Valentine's Day! Peace Out-ONE B
Penelope Cruz-For me, she was the most stunning woman on the red carpet. That high low black Chanel Couture dress with the pearl belt was BEYOND! Her hair and makeup were flawless. No one could come close to her perfection.
Margot Robbie-Another beautiful Chanel black dress. This was vintage 1994 and looked sensational. The embellished bodice was exquisite and so was her hair and makeup.
Charleze Theron-Again, I vote for the black dress! This couture Dior ball gown with the thigh high slit looked beautiful and so well tailored to her body. Her necklace from Tiffany was my favorite of the night (we'll get to that later), and the slicked back hair was just right for the look.
HONORABLE MENTION:
Renee Zelwegger-The fit of this white one - shouldered Armani Prive was sublime. I just wish she had added a pop of color to her cheeks and lips. Natural is one thing, but she looked svah.... too pale. And her hair needed help.
Cynthia Erivo-She looked great in the Versace jewel encrusted gown. And, accessorized with lots of Piaget diamonds (maybe a few too many rings and earrings!). Such an amazing singer and actress. Love her.
Regina King-Adorned in a powder pink Versace gown, she looked beautiful. The Harry Winston jewels didn't hurt the look either. And the fit of the gown was spectacular-don't waste a waist!
Rebel Wilson-Exuding old world glamor wearing a gold sequined Jason Wu gown and side parted hair, red lips, and a beautiful Pomellato necklace-Spot on!
FAVORITE JEWELS (MY FAVORITE PART)
CHARLEZE THERON-loved the 5 million dollar marquise necklace from Tiffany. I'm not usually a marquis fan but this did the trick. Gorgeous!
MINDY KALING-another beautiful necklace with marquis stones that was a take off on the one from Ocean's 8. This 124 Carat piece was made by Chopard and was the perfect accessory to her Dolce and Gabana yellow gown.
ZAZIE BEETZ-She wore TWO Bulgari necklaces featuring diamonds and emeralds totaling over 97 carats. These were show stoppers. Who says less is more? This look was INCREDIBLE!
GRETA GERWIG-Did I say this was the best neck piece of the night? It just doesn't get any better than emeralds and diamonds. This Bulgari vintage "looking" piece was a stunner. Every girl needs this in her wardrobe, and it was majestically beautiful with her custom strapless, Dior haute couture gown.
JANELLE MONAE-Who could even notice this Forevermark necklace with that crazy silver hooded Ralph Lauren gown? The necklace was everything.....the gown not so much!
Olivia Coleman-simple but elegant emerald and diamond earrings. Loved them and would wear them with jeans.
SCARLETT JOHANSSON-Donning $2.1 million diamond earrings by Forevermark. These were amazing from every angle. Round and pear shaped diamonds were just exquisite.
DIDN'T LIKE THE LOOK- IT JUST DIDN'T COME TOGETHER:
SANDRA OH-Ellie Saab gown with overpowering sleeves and under wowing hair. Hated the look.
SAOIRSE RONAN-sustainable Gucci? Really? That peplum could have held her laptop! I just didn't get this look. The ugly earrings, the bumblebee brooch in her hair, and the bangs. Avert your eyes-too much.
LAURA DERN-Usually, I think she is one of the best dressed women in Hollywood. But this soft pink Armani Prive with the black crystal beads on the boobs-OY VAY. Terrible! I did not like the hair or the makeup either. Loved her speech though.
SELMA HAYAK-Wasn't a fan of the Gucci gown on her body type. The dress accentuated her bust too much. The Boucheron necklace in her hair was horrendous. And, I never think matching jewelry ensembles are a good idea. The earrings and bracelet that matched that headpiece were definite no nos.
Brie Larsen-Loved her hair and makeup, but I wasn't digging the dress. It seemed too matronly.
Rooney Mara-Her whole look was too gothic for me. She looks like she should be starring in a Twilight movie or living in a coffin. Scary!
FINAL THOUGHTS:
BRAD PITT-Need I say more? This man is GORGEOUS-STILL.
OPENING NUMBER BY JANELLE MONAE-Wow-she rocked the house. I don't know who she is but she was Fab!
STEVE MARTIN AND CHRIS ROCK-They were hysterical. Chris Rock CRUSHED IT! He should've hosted.
KRISTIN WIIG AND MAYA RUDOLPH-They were awesome. Funny, irreverent and exhibited great chemistry. Billie Eilish-shame on you.
JOAQUIN PHOENIX'S ACCEPTANCE SPEECH-Cra-cra! The guy is a lunatic; quickly unraveling like the Joker. I am not necessarily disagreeing with his views. But the inseminated cow topic was really weird for this show. He should have just gone with the quote from his brother, River. "Run to the rescue with love and peace will follow."
Finally, if you have not seen Renee Zellwegger in Judy-YOU MUST. IT IS AN AWARD WINNING PERFORMANCE. BREATHTAKING AND SAD AND EXTRAORDINARY.
If you have not seen The Two Popes-DO! Jonathan Pryce and Anthony Hopkins were superb. Loved this film.
Hair Love-this short animation is worth googling. Simply brilliant and adorable. Watch it now.
Parasite-I saw it. It is difficult to watch, but I NEED to watch it one more time. It is a brilliant social satire that needs to be seen. I loved Bong Joon-Ho's speeches at the Oscars and how he payed homage to Scorsese and Tarentino.
Happy Valentine's Day! Peace Out-ONE B
Tuesday, December 17, 2019
A FEW OF MY FAVORITE THINGS : AKA STOCKING STUFFERS : CHRISTMAS 2019
You don't have to spend a lot of money to give a great gift. The following items are integral to my daily routines. I am sure you, too, have favorites that are indispensable. Here are mine, and the ones I like to gift to loved ones.
1) O'Keefe's Lip Repair-$3.99 Amazon or Target. Great for extremely cracked and chapped lips.
2) Pacifica Glow Baby Booster Serum-$16.00 at Ulta. Infused with glycolic acid and vitamin c. Mix a few drops into your moisturizer. Instantly glows and brightens your skin. My favorite!
3) Aquafor Advanced Therapy Body Spray-$12.29 Amazon. Extremely healing but a bit greasy. Let it soak in before putting on your clothes. Great for healing wounds or cuts.
4)Vaseline Intensive Care Spray-$6.00 at any drugstore. Perfect just out of the shower for both men and women. Non greasy and keeps your skin moisturized throughout the cold winter. The Best!
5) Clinique All About The Eyes-$33 at all department stores. Lightweight eye cream that relieves puffiness and circles. Use at night and in the morning. Make sure to buy the gel and not the cream.
For anyone who has issues with their eyes, this should be your go to. Hypo allergenic.
6) Cremo Original Shave Cream-$1.99 at drugstores, Target, and Amazon. The perfect shaving cream for the men in your life. Once you use it, you'll stop using your other brand.
7) Prada Infusion D'Iris Eau de Toilette-$160 at high end department stores. A pricier stocking stuffer but the most beautiful scent. The toilette is just the right intensity and not too strong. I am not a fan of any perfume. I much prefer the lighter toilette version- it's alluring but not overpowering.
8) Sistema Microwave Cups-$49.00 for a set of six at Amazon. Each comes in a pretty individual box. They are great for soups, chili, and hot drinks. There is a vented cover that locks. No more explosions in your microwave. Divide them up and give them out to 6 friends. Great for the workplace.
9) Bobby Brown Beach Hand and Body Cream-$39 at Net A Porter. It's very hard to find. Seems to be in great demand. As soon as you dab it on, you are transported to a sandy beach. It's divine. Keep searching for it-it's worth it!
10) Dr. Brandt Oxygen Facial Recovery Mask-$70 at Sephora. This could be my favorite product! Apply to wet skin after the shower. In 3 minutes, you skin is reinvigorated! It's fabulous-use it once a week.
11) Loreal Magic Root Coverup-$7.00 All drugstores. My "go to" for my gray roots. In between color appointments, I spritz it on my part and hairline. Gets me through until I get back to the salon.
12) Versed Twice As Nice Serum Rolling Gift Set-$16.99 at Target. Includes roller and anti aging serum and brightening serum. Such a wonderful stocking stuffer.
13) Orolay Down Jacket-$139 at Amazon. OMG - my friend turned me on to this yummy warm coat. (Thanks Robyn!). You will never feel the cold again! Tons of pockets for gloves, phone, wallets. Comes in lots of colors. It's fun, cute, warm, and perfect for long walks. It's the BEST.
14) Almay Smart Shade CC Luminous Primer SPF 15-$8.99 at all drugstores. I am obsessed with this primer. I dot it on my face with a little foundation and sponge it on. Instant glow. Just as great alone on your bare skin. You'll look well rested, even if your not.
15) Tretinoin Cream 0.05 % (Retin A)-You need a script from your dermatologist. Use several times a week at night. I mix it with my moisturizer. It helps renew your skin, removes sun damage, and keeps you looking young.
Everyone should be using it!
16) Silk 'n Revit Microderm Kit-$99 on Amazon. I was given this kit years ago from my daughter. I use it at least once a week. It comes with three different heads and it aids in removing blackheads, age spots, and dead skin. In between your microderm treatments at the dermatologist, this helps maintain your skin. Love it.
Wishing Everyone A Happy Chanukah, A Very Merry Christmas, And A Happy and Healthy New Year. May we all spend more time appreciating what is right in front of us-We all have lots to be thankful for. PEACE OUT-ONE B
1) O'Keefe's Lip Repair-$3.99 Amazon or Target. Great for extremely cracked and chapped lips.
2) Pacifica Glow Baby Booster Serum-$16.00 at Ulta. Infused with glycolic acid and vitamin c. Mix a few drops into your moisturizer. Instantly glows and brightens your skin. My favorite!
3) Aquafor Advanced Therapy Body Spray-$12.29 Amazon. Extremely healing but a bit greasy. Let it soak in before putting on your clothes. Great for healing wounds or cuts.
4)Vaseline Intensive Care Spray-$6.00 at any drugstore. Perfect just out of the shower for both men and women. Non greasy and keeps your skin moisturized throughout the cold winter. The Best!
5) Clinique All About The Eyes-$33 at all department stores. Lightweight eye cream that relieves puffiness and circles. Use at night and in the morning. Make sure to buy the gel and not the cream.
For anyone who has issues with their eyes, this should be your go to. Hypo allergenic.
6) Cremo Original Shave Cream-$1.99 at drugstores, Target, and Amazon. The perfect shaving cream for the men in your life. Once you use it, you'll stop using your other brand.
7) Prada Infusion D'Iris Eau de Toilette-$160 at high end department stores. A pricier stocking stuffer but the most beautiful scent. The toilette is just the right intensity and not too strong. I am not a fan of any perfume. I much prefer the lighter toilette version- it's alluring but not overpowering.
8) Sistema Microwave Cups-$49.00 for a set of six at Amazon. Each comes in a pretty individual box. They are great for soups, chili, and hot drinks. There is a vented cover that locks. No more explosions in your microwave. Divide them up and give them out to 6 friends. Great for the workplace.
9) Bobby Brown Beach Hand and Body Cream-$39 at Net A Porter. It's very hard to find. Seems to be in great demand. As soon as you dab it on, you are transported to a sandy beach. It's divine. Keep searching for it-it's worth it!
10) Dr. Brandt Oxygen Facial Recovery Mask-$70 at Sephora. This could be my favorite product! Apply to wet skin after the shower. In 3 minutes, you skin is reinvigorated! It's fabulous-use it once a week.
11) Loreal Magic Root Coverup-$7.00 All drugstores. My "go to" for my gray roots. In between color appointments, I spritz it on my part and hairline. Gets me through until I get back to the salon.
12) Versed Twice As Nice Serum Rolling Gift Set-$16.99 at Target. Includes roller and anti aging serum and brightening serum. Such a wonderful stocking stuffer.
13) Orolay Down Jacket-$139 at Amazon. OMG - my friend turned me on to this yummy warm coat. (Thanks Robyn!). You will never feel the cold again! Tons of pockets for gloves, phone, wallets. Comes in lots of colors. It's fun, cute, warm, and perfect for long walks. It's the BEST.
14) Almay Smart Shade CC Luminous Primer SPF 15-$8.99 at all drugstores. I am obsessed with this primer. I dot it on my face with a little foundation and sponge it on. Instant glow. Just as great alone on your bare skin. You'll look well rested, even if your not.
15) Tretinoin Cream 0.05 % (Retin A)-You need a script from your dermatologist. Use several times a week at night. I mix it with my moisturizer. It helps renew your skin, removes sun damage, and keeps you looking young.
Everyone should be using it!
16) Silk 'n Revit Microderm Kit-$99 on Amazon. I was given this kit years ago from my daughter. I use it at least once a week. It comes with three different heads and it aids in removing blackheads, age spots, and dead skin. In between your microderm treatments at the dermatologist, this helps maintain your skin. Love it.
Wishing Everyone A Happy Chanukah, A Very Merry Christmas, And A Happy and Healthy New Year. May we all spend more time appreciating what is right in front of us-We all have lots to be thankful for. PEACE OUT-ONE B
Thursday, December 12, 2019
"AGE IS RARELY KIND TO ANYONE. ONE JUST HAS TO GET ON WITH IT!" (FROM THE CROWN)
I haven't checked in with you in a long while. With the passing of my Dad in September, came the onset of heart failure in my 92 year old Mom. On November 4th, I retrieved her from her hospital bed. Four days later, I had put her house on the market, I had arranged for the house to be packed up and cleared out, and I swooped her onto the plane (she was half dead and I was praying the whole way home she would survive the flight). We arrived in N.J. on November 7th, and I drove directly to a rehab facility where she slowly regained her strength. Miraculously, two weeks later, I was able to move her into an assisted living facility. The good news is that she seems to be doing okay. In fact, I am amazed and proud at what a trooper she has been. It has been three months since she lost her husband, closed her beloved home and transitioned to a rehab facility, and then again to a new apartment at Brandywine. It has been rough ride.
I, however, am completely overwhelmed, overworked, underpaid, and literally having a bit of a breakdown. I miss my grandchildren terribly. I have spent almost every day for the last 4 weeks on the phone for several hours fighting with Insurance Companies, reenrolling in Part D plans in NJ, paying bills, picking up prescriptions, making deposits in various accounts, and generally fighting with a zillion people about address changes, stopping phone service, television service, and newspaper service, long term care benefits, and questioning the realtor on updates of the Condo sale, etc. And when I am not doing these things, I am with my mom advocating for her at a doctor appointment, buying her groceries, shower curtains, shoes, loveseats, or bringing her to CVS, and on other various errands. I, literally get out of bed at 5 to hit the gym before spending the greater part of my day righting her ship!
I used to see my five precious grandchildren several times a week but I don't have that luxury right now. This fact makes me very depressed and anxious. They are the joys of my life. I am hoping that as the months go on, mom will become more independent and not rely on my services as much. And, I will be able to transition back to helping my daughters more and start to see my grandchildren as much as I did before my mom moved here. Or is this my new normal?
In the meantime, I still don't sleep. As Thomas Edison said, "sleep is a waste of time."
As you all know, the panacea for my sleeplessness and my mode of decompression has been visual outlets for the past few years (and vodka!). Sadly, I don't have the ability to concentrate on reading books right now. I am hoping that, too, will change again. So here is what I've recently been viewing.
TELEVISION
The Morning Show-Amazon Prime. Pretty entertaining. And NOONE rocks a little black dress like Aniston. Reese Witherspoon is fabulous and the show is really "The Matt Lauer Story". Worth watching.
Mrs. Fletcher-HBO. Soooo much sex-you won't believe it!! I love Kathryn Hahn. She is a recent divorcee who explores lots of erotic possibilities now that she's single. Love it!
Succession-HBO. The second season was even better than the first. All the characters have so much depth. Brian Cox and Kieran Culkin are my favorites. It's the story of an elderly patriarch running a large company and figuring out what the future holds for the company and his family. Great!
The Kominsky Method-Netflix. This is the second season. Michael Douglas and Alan Arkin are amazing. However, I enjoyed the first season much more. This season it was a little ho hum and boring. But for those of you who enjoyed the first season, you'll want to watch.
Modern Love-Amazon. Six different episodes based on the N.Y. Times Sunday Column. I especially liked the last episode about an elderly woman and man who meet running and fall in love. Very well done.
The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel-Amazon. Season 3 rocks! I am loving every second. I didn't love season 2, but the writing has been spectacular this season. I love the scene at the pool at the Fontainebleau in Florida. Suzie sums up my feelings about Florida perfectly!
And, of course, I continue to watch Ray Donovan (SHO), Shameless (SHO), The Good Doctor (ABC)-LOVE THIS SHOW! Just beginning to watch The L Word and Work In Progress (Both just starting on SHO).
BROADWAY SHOWS
Hadestown-Completely amazing. Loved the acting, the songs, the story, and the staging. So worth seeing! Mesmerizing. Read the story first, before you see it.
Tina-Adrienne Warren is beyond fabulous as Tina. The little girl who plays Tina as a child steals the show and is immensely talented. The show is fun and enjoyable completely due to the incredibly talented cast. The show itself was ok, but it didn't matter as long as someone was singing!
An uplifting night that will leave you smiling.
MOVIES
JoJo Rabbit-GO!
Knives Out-GO! Fun, well done mystery. Great cast.
The Irishman-Watch at home on Netflix. 3 1/2 hours. Hated it!
A Beautiful Day in The Neighborhood-Fair. Liked the documentary much better than the movie.
Motherless Brooklyn-Go! Liked it.
Marriage Story-Very good and you can watch it on Netflix. Adam Driver is great!
Harriet-Cynthia Erivo is always amazing. Movie was poorly done though. Good to watch at home.
LOVE ALWAYS MOM-Amazon. This was a life changing documentary for me. Very difficult to watch. Tricia Gonnella Russo, whose family lived around the corner from us in Short Hills, documents her journey of trying to become a mom while dealing with the tragic diagnosis of metastatic breast cancer. She is such an incredible young woman who navigates her life in an inspiring and heroic way. Totally worth viewing.
Do not miss this!
Until the next time-
Wishing you and your families a Happy and Healthy New Year!
Peace Out-OneB
I, however, am completely overwhelmed, overworked, underpaid, and literally having a bit of a breakdown. I miss my grandchildren terribly. I have spent almost every day for the last 4 weeks on the phone for several hours fighting with Insurance Companies, reenrolling in Part D plans in NJ, paying bills, picking up prescriptions, making deposits in various accounts, and generally fighting with a zillion people about address changes, stopping phone service, television service, and newspaper service, long term care benefits, and questioning the realtor on updates of the Condo sale, etc. And when I am not doing these things, I am with my mom advocating for her at a doctor appointment, buying her groceries, shower curtains, shoes, loveseats, or bringing her to CVS, and on other various errands. I, literally get out of bed at 5 to hit the gym before spending the greater part of my day righting her ship!
I used to see my five precious grandchildren several times a week but I don't have that luxury right now. This fact makes me very depressed and anxious. They are the joys of my life. I am hoping that as the months go on, mom will become more independent and not rely on my services as much. And, I will be able to transition back to helping my daughters more and start to see my grandchildren as much as I did before my mom moved here. Or is this my new normal?
In the meantime, I still don't sleep. As Thomas Edison said, "sleep is a waste of time."
As you all know, the panacea for my sleeplessness and my mode of decompression has been visual outlets for the past few years (and vodka!). Sadly, I don't have the ability to concentrate on reading books right now. I am hoping that, too, will change again. So here is what I've recently been viewing.
TELEVISION
The Morning Show-Amazon Prime. Pretty entertaining. And NOONE rocks a little black dress like Aniston. Reese Witherspoon is fabulous and the show is really "The Matt Lauer Story". Worth watching.
Mrs. Fletcher-HBO. Soooo much sex-you won't believe it!! I love Kathryn Hahn. She is a recent divorcee who explores lots of erotic possibilities now that she's single. Love it!
Succession-HBO. The second season was even better than the first. All the characters have so much depth. Brian Cox and Kieran Culkin are my favorites. It's the story of an elderly patriarch running a large company and figuring out what the future holds for the company and his family. Great!
The Kominsky Method-Netflix. This is the second season. Michael Douglas and Alan Arkin are amazing. However, I enjoyed the first season much more. This season it was a little ho hum and boring. But for those of you who enjoyed the first season, you'll want to watch.
Modern Love-Amazon. Six different episodes based on the N.Y. Times Sunday Column. I especially liked the last episode about an elderly woman and man who meet running and fall in love. Very well done.
The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel-Amazon. Season 3 rocks! I am loving every second. I didn't love season 2, but the writing has been spectacular this season. I love the scene at the pool at the Fontainebleau in Florida. Suzie sums up my feelings about Florida perfectly!
And, of course, I continue to watch Ray Donovan (SHO), Shameless (SHO), The Good Doctor (ABC)-LOVE THIS SHOW! Just beginning to watch The L Word and Work In Progress (Both just starting on SHO).
BROADWAY SHOWS
Hadestown-Completely amazing. Loved the acting, the songs, the story, and the staging. So worth seeing! Mesmerizing. Read the story first, before you see it.
Tina-Adrienne Warren is beyond fabulous as Tina. The little girl who plays Tina as a child steals the show and is immensely talented. The show is fun and enjoyable completely due to the incredibly talented cast. The show itself was ok, but it didn't matter as long as someone was singing!
An uplifting night that will leave you smiling.
MOVIES
JoJo Rabbit-GO!
Knives Out-GO! Fun, well done mystery. Great cast.
The Irishman-Watch at home on Netflix. 3 1/2 hours. Hated it!
A Beautiful Day in The Neighborhood-Fair. Liked the documentary much better than the movie.
Motherless Brooklyn-Go! Liked it.
Marriage Story-Very good and you can watch it on Netflix. Adam Driver is great!
Harriet-Cynthia Erivo is always amazing. Movie was poorly done though. Good to watch at home.
LOVE ALWAYS MOM-Amazon. This was a life changing documentary for me. Very difficult to watch. Tricia Gonnella Russo, whose family lived around the corner from us in Short Hills, documents her journey of trying to become a mom while dealing with the tragic diagnosis of metastatic breast cancer. She is such an incredible young woman who navigates her life in an inspiring and heroic way. Totally worth viewing.
Do not miss this!
Until the next time-
Wishing you and your families a Happy and Healthy New Year!
Peace Out-OneB
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)