Winter is in full swing and for me that means more indoor time to read, listen, shop on line, and then venture out to gather sustenance and see movies. The Oscars are fast approaching so let's do the Flicks first.
FILMS
A Star is Born-**** Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper star. Very good remake. Won't win for best film.
Ben is Back-**Julia Roberts and Lucas Hedges. Good, but depressing. Watch it on demand.
Black Klansman-****A Spike Lee film starring Denzel's son, John David Washington. True story. I predict this will win Best Director. Spike has never won, and in this politically charged moment, I think he'll finally get the recognition he well deserves.
Black Panther-can't rate it, because I haven't seen it yet. But this is the major contender for
Best Film.
Bohemian Rhapsody-****Fun to watch from beginning to end. The story of the band Queen and Freddy Mercury. Rami Malek may just nab Best Actor for his role as Mercury.
The Favourite-***About Queen Anne and her friend Lady Sarah. Starring Emma Stone, Rachel Weisz, and Olivia Colman. Colman is a strong contender for Best Actress. Film was good, not great.
Green Book-****Fabulous film but it will be overlooked. Great performances by Mahershala Ali and Viggo Mortensen. Ali should win for best supporting actor. Think Driving Miss Daisy in reverse.
If Beale Street Could Talk-***Based on James Baldwin's story of a woman who seeks to clear the name of her wrongly accused lover and prove his innocence. Acting was superb.
On The Basis of Sex-**Entertaining, but not as good as the television documentary about RBG.
The Mule-****. One of my year's favorites. Clint Eastwood is spectacular. Don't miss this one!
The Vice-****. Although this received only fair reviews, I thought it was quite good. Christian Bale as Cheney, Sam Rockwell as George Bush, and Amy Adams as Lynne Cheney give stellar performances. Adams may nab Best Supporting Actress for this.
The Wife-****. An older woman questions her choice of husband and abandoning her career for him. Glenn Close will take the Best Actress Award for her role.
The Upside-**. Not a great movie, but I still liked it. Bryan Cranston and Kevin Hart are terrific.
So my predictions are: Black Panther/Best Movie; Black Klansman/Best Director; Rami Malek/Best Actor; Best Supporting Actor/Mahershala Ali; Best Actress/Glen Close; Best Supporting Actress/Regina King; Best Song/Lady Gaga.
PODCASTS
Mobituaries-Fans of Mo Rocca will love this series. Tune in to hear about Audrey Hepburn, or the fascinating story of famous JFK impersonator, Vaughn Meader. Each episode is about 45 minutes long. Listen to and from work. Most enjoyable!
Sunday Sitdown With Willie Geist-Listen to interesting interviews with the likes of Trevor Noah, Bradley Cooper, and other big names in music and pop culture. Willie is the bomb-love him and his interviews. Next superstar in the news-he is super talented.
PRODUCTS
Double Good Popcorn-delicious and a great way to give to charity. 50% of each item goes directly to your favorite charity. Sixteen flavors-Check out their website at Doublegood.com.
Heatonist.com-hot sauce gifts for those who want to spice it up. Tons of options starting at $14.
Fairytale Brownies-This is my "go to" gift. I send these all the time. There are 12 fudgy flavors in 3 different sizes and the best part is they are individually wrapped. Everyone loves them. Check out their site and also available on Amazon. Prices start at $20.95.
Kopari Coconut Body Glow-Skin illuminator for dry, dull skin. You can mix it into your favorite lotion for a subtler shimmer. $44 Sephora. Also available on QVC.
Carter and Jane Everything Oil-Prickly pear oil that replaces all other products. Can be used as eye, face, lip, neck and décolletage moisturizer. Also comes in a body oil. Before purchasing read about the aroma-no fragrance is used but prickly pear has a distinct aroma. $52 for the body oil, and $128 for the everything oil. CarterandJane.com.
Hammitt Limited Edition Bryant Bag-Soft leather purse with coveted external cell phone pocket. Stylish and a great purse for travel. Comes in different sizes and cross body option. $495
LITERATURE PICKS
Golden Child-Debut novel by Claire Adam. Sara Jessica Parker's second pick for Hogarth Publishing.
The Plot is about twin boys growing up in Trinidad and their struggles.
The Tournament-by Matthew Reilly. A thriller that takes place during Ottoman Empire and the story involves chess and a murder.
Where The Crawdads Sing-by Delia Owens. A murder mystery and a coming of age novel.
Becoming-by Michelle Obama. Superbly written by the First Lady. I am told the audio is even more fabulous because she narrates her memoir.
In Pieces-by Sally Field. Also a memoir which covers her lonely childhood and how it shaped her life as a daughter and a mother.
They Can't Kill Us-Pulitzer Prize Winner Wesley Lowery discusses the "totality of the American devaluation of black lives. Inspired by Ferguson Uprising and fatal shooting of Michael Brown in 2014.
FINALLY-LET'S EAT: LOCAL RESTAURANTS
Bottle Hill Tavern-13 Waverly Place, Madison. Formerly Poor Herbie's, this was taken over by Pal's owners. Yes, they have the mushroom soup, Burgers, and open hot turkey sandwich from the West Orange Establishment. Lots of great fare for lunch or dinner and a bar too. No reservations.
Central and Main-3 Central Ave., Madison. American eatery by the same owners of South and Pine in Morristown. Vegetarian friendly. Open for lunch and dinner. BYO.
Da Pepo-54 Fairfield Street, Montclair. Small plates, pasta, salads and paninis. 19 seats and no reservations. Go early! BYO.
Fox and Falcon-19 Valley Street, South Orange. Formerly Ricaltons. Burgers, steaks, fish. Craft Beers and fun cocktails. The chef's pasta is supposedly beyond fabulous-he was the executive chef at Del Posto in the city.
Grain and Cane-250 Connell Drive, Berkley Heights. Raw Bar, steaks, seafood, burgers and fun sides. Has a bar.
Moe's Bistro-535 Central Ave., New Providence. Varied menu for dinner, less options at lunch. They take reservations and it's BYO. Don't be fooled by it's Best Western location!
Montclair Social-499 Bloomfield Ave. Montclair. Short Hills lawyer opened this with the idea of music, cocktails and varied menu of nibbles or entrees. Opened for brunch on weekends as well.
The Pasta Shop-13 First Avenue, Denville. Handmade pastas. Papperdelle Bolognese and the garlic bread are not to be missed. Only 36 seats which are always full. Be prepared to wait. BYO.
Pucciarello's-34 Ridgedale Ave., East Hanover. Good, hearty Italian food. Try the chopped salad and the inside out meatball stuffed with spaghetti. Lots of options. Nicely managed. Great for Saturday night or Family dinners on Sunday. They take reservations and it's BYO.
This ought to keep you busy until Spring! Peace Out. One B
Tuesday, February 12, 2019
Monday, February 11, 2019
FEBRUARY'S FILMS, FOOD, PRODUCTS, PODCASTS AND LITERATURE
Winter is upon us and for me that means even more indoor time to read, listen, shop on line, and venture out to get sustenance. It's almost Oscar time so I will start the list with Films.
FILMS
A Star is Born-**** Bradley Cooper and Lady Gaga star in this remake. Loved it.
Ben Is Back-
FILMS
A Star is Born-**** Bradley Cooper and Lady Gaga star in this remake. Loved it.
Ben Is Back-
Friday, February 8, 2019
February Follies
With Winter upon us and the winds a blowing, I have seen lots of movies, watched lots of great television
Thursday, January 10, 2019
"I'm Mad as Hell, and I'm not going to take this anymore"
To all my friends who are Republicans, I apologize for the rant that I am about to shout. I have tried not to venture into political opinions when writing my blog. But truthfully, I can't hold back anymore. I respect whatever anyone believes politically. But please don't tell me that you endorse Donald Trump. He lies to the country each and every day. He is totally unqualified to run this country. He acts like a two year old throwing tantrums and he twitters to change the dialogue when he doesn't get his way. It doesn't matter to me if you are far left or far right. What matters to me (and it should to all of you) is having an honest, intelligent, empathetic, informed individual looking out for our country. This man doesn't have a clue. At least surround yourself with intelligent, experienced people who would advise you to do the right thing. But, no one stays with him for long, because they can't tolerate his behavior. So as Peter Finch in Network says, "GET MAD. Get up out of your chairs. Go to the window. Open it. Stick your head out and yell, I'm mad as hell and I'm not going to take this anymore."
"We know things are bad. They are worse than bad."
Have you seen Donald Trump Jr.'s instagram statement today? He asks, "You know why you can enjoy a day at the zoo? Because walls work. Is he actually saying a border wall is like zoo fence which protects you from animals (immigrants)? OMG-I can't even believe those words could be uttered out of any human being's mouth. Where is the compassion and empathy this country is known for? I wonder if Mueller will show him how well walls work....
Let's discuss Donald Trump Sr. ( I can't bear to address him as the President) who compared immigrants to a bowl of skittles in which some of the candies are poisoned. How can anyone support this man? He sets a horrendous example to our youth and to the world. Promoting hate and intolerance is not what this country was built on.
"Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free, the wretched refuse of your teeming shore. Send these homeless, tempest-tost to me, I lift my lamb beside the golden door."
Do you even realize how severely this government shut down affects our country? Do you fly on planes for vacation or business? Think twice and good luck-The FAA who inspects planes and who certifies pilot training are furloughed. No one is inspecting your plane before take off. Or if someone is, they are an overworked skeleton crew is doing all of it with out pay. There is virtually no safety oversight on your flight today. Air traffic controllers are working with no pay. It is unconscionable. The irony is Trump is so concerned about allowing terrorists into our country at the borders. Yet, for the past 20 days they can basically just fly in. TSA agents aren't being paid, but have to show up for work. Imagine the mental state and morale of all these airport employees forced to work, and not getting paychecks.
What else is being affected? I'll tell you. The Department of Homeland Security, the Justice Department, Housing and Urban Development, Commerce, The Treasury, Transportation, and Food Stamps.
The EPA is not operating at full strength. There are sensors to detect air pollution and chemicals in the air, and these reports (about the pollution) are delayed. Therefore, we are unaware of the air quality as it's happening in real time.
The FDA says most food inspections are halted during the shutdown. The agency typically conducts roughly 160 inspections per week and now there are none. These checks search for bug infestations, unclean conditions and contamination. Beware of seafood and cheese as well as veggies. VERY SCARY.
As of today, there are 800,000 Federal employees furloughed without pay. They don't know how they will pay their mortgage, rent, electric bills, phone bills or buy food.
There is a need to reopen the government whether Trump gets a wall or not. He can sign a bill to do that. Republicans and Democrats MUST end this insanity. People want to work, and want to get paid.
And, let me remind you that the terrorists and the gun violence that has occurred in this country in the past years is not performed by immigrants seeking refuge from horrific conditions in their native countries and trying to come to the U.S. through our borders. Rather,the violence has been by people who came through airports, or who have lived in the U.S. for years and often they are U.S. Citizens with guns. Too bad the NRA doesn't shut down-JUST SAYING.
Peace out-Oneb
"We know things are bad. They are worse than bad."
Have you seen Donald Trump Jr.'s instagram statement today? He asks, "You know why you can enjoy a day at the zoo? Because walls work. Is he actually saying a border wall is like zoo fence which protects you from animals (immigrants)? OMG-I can't even believe those words could be uttered out of any human being's mouth. Where is the compassion and empathy this country is known for? I wonder if Mueller will show him how well walls work....
Let's discuss Donald Trump Sr. ( I can't bear to address him as the President) who compared immigrants to a bowl of skittles in which some of the candies are poisoned. How can anyone support this man? He sets a horrendous example to our youth and to the world. Promoting hate and intolerance is not what this country was built on.
"Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free, the wretched refuse of your teeming shore. Send these homeless, tempest-tost to me, I lift my lamb beside the golden door."
Do you even realize how severely this government shut down affects our country? Do you fly on planes for vacation or business? Think twice and good luck-The FAA who inspects planes and who certifies pilot training are furloughed. No one is inspecting your plane before take off. Or if someone is, they are an overworked skeleton crew is doing all of it with out pay. There is virtually no safety oversight on your flight today. Air traffic controllers are working with no pay. It is unconscionable. The irony is Trump is so concerned about allowing terrorists into our country at the borders. Yet, for the past 20 days they can basically just fly in. TSA agents aren't being paid, but have to show up for work. Imagine the mental state and morale of all these airport employees forced to work, and not getting paychecks.
What else is being affected? I'll tell you. The Department of Homeland Security, the Justice Department, Housing and Urban Development, Commerce, The Treasury, Transportation, and Food Stamps.
The EPA is not operating at full strength. There are sensors to detect air pollution and chemicals in the air, and these reports (about the pollution) are delayed. Therefore, we are unaware of the air quality as it's happening in real time.
The FDA says most food inspections are halted during the shutdown. The agency typically conducts roughly 160 inspections per week and now there are none. These checks search for bug infestations, unclean conditions and contamination. Beware of seafood and cheese as well as veggies. VERY SCARY.
As of today, there are 800,000 Federal employees furloughed without pay. They don't know how they will pay their mortgage, rent, electric bills, phone bills or buy food.
There is a need to reopen the government whether Trump gets a wall or not. He can sign a bill to do that. Republicans and Democrats MUST end this insanity. People want to work, and want to get paid.
And, let me remind you that the terrorists and the gun violence that has occurred in this country in the past years is not performed by immigrants seeking refuge from horrific conditions in their native countries and trying to come to the U.S. through our borders. Rather,the violence has been by people who came through airports, or who have lived in the U.S. for years and often they are U.S. Citizens with guns. Too bad the NRA doesn't shut down-JUST SAYING.
Peace out-Oneb
Friday, December 28, 2018
Goodbye 2018-Hello 2019
As the new year approaches, I want to wish all my friends and family a Very Happy and Healthy New Year. The end of the year is a time to reflect on the past twelve months, take stock in our lives, and be grateful for those around us. I thought this would be an appropriate time to share some of my favorite quotes.
FAMILY, PARENTING, CHILDREN, LOVE
1) If you are a parent recognize that is the most important calling and rewarding challenge you have. What you do everyday, what you say and how you act, will do more to shape the future of America than any other factor. Anonymous
2) A man or a woman is simply the by product of their childhood. All their standards and every shred of their characters are formed in their homes by their parents....the man I become will be a reflection of who my parents were. Pat Conroy
3) There's no point in being grown up if you can't be childish sometimes. Anonymous
4) Family are the people who must never make you feel ashamed. You are wrong. Family are the people who must make you feel ashamed when you are deserving of shame. Jonathan S. Foer
5) Dealing with growing children is like being in a batting cage with ball after ball being thrown at you. You hit the balls you can. Amazingly, the score gets kept for a very long time. Allen Shawn
6) All families are psychotic. Everybody has basically the same family-it's just reconfigured slightly different from one to the next. Meet my in-laws one of these nights. Douglas Coupland
7) Raising children is like waging a war. There will be triumphs, defeats, casualties! Bernie Mack
8) The loveliest fairytale of childhood is that everything happens in order. Philip Roth
9) Love is my decision to make your problem my concern. Robert Schuller
LIFE, HAPPINESS, MORALS, EDUCATION
1) No one else can give you happiness after you become an adult. Happiness is self derived and self created. Ellen Gilchrist
2) If you do the right thing well, you avoid futility. Dr. Paul Farmer
3) Always do right. This will gratify some people and astonish the rest. Mark Twain
4) The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack of will. Anonymous
5) The only thing more expensive than education is ignorance. Anonymous
6) Q. What's the difference between ignorance and indifference
A. I don't know and I don't care. Saul Bellow
7) Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
Plato
8) I would love to be more patient. In fact, I would love to be patient. Manolo Blahnik
8) We do not do what we want, yet we are responsible for what we are. Sartre
POLITICS, LITERATURE, AND MUSIC
1) When something is bothering me, I seek refuge. No need to travel far; a trip to the realm of literary memory will suffice. For where can one find more noble distraction, more entertaining company, more delightful enchantment than in literature? Barbery
2) One of the penalties of refusing to participate in politics is that you end up being governed by your
inferiors. Plato
3) Without music, life would be a mistake. Friedrich Nietzsche
4) There's no spectacle that is as terrifying as the sight of a guest in your house whom you catch staring at your books. Not because the browser is going to criticize your reading tastes, but because you fear he's going to ask to borrow a book. Roger Rosenblatt
PAIN, AGING, DEATH
1) Pain is inevitable, Suffering is optional. H Murakami
2) We mustn't forget old people....And where's the joy in these final hours that they ought to be making the most of? But if you dread tomorrow, it's because you don't know how to build the present. Barbery
3) Maybe all one can do is hope to end with the right regrets. Arthur Miller
4) The only infallible truth of our lives is that everything we love in life will be taken from us.
Dave Eggers
And a Final quote from One B:
You do it well, you get the fame. You screw up, you get the blame.
Peace Out-One B
FAMILY, PARENTING, CHILDREN, LOVE
1) If you are a parent recognize that is the most important calling and rewarding challenge you have. What you do everyday, what you say and how you act, will do more to shape the future of America than any other factor. Anonymous
2) A man or a woman is simply the by product of their childhood. All their standards and every shred of their characters are formed in their homes by their parents....the man I become will be a reflection of who my parents were. Pat Conroy
3) There's no point in being grown up if you can't be childish sometimes. Anonymous
4) Family are the people who must never make you feel ashamed. You are wrong. Family are the people who must make you feel ashamed when you are deserving of shame. Jonathan S. Foer
5) Dealing with growing children is like being in a batting cage with ball after ball being thrown at you. You hit the balls you can. Amazingly, the score gets kept for a very long time. Allen Shawn
6) All families are psychotic. Everybody has basically the same family-it's just reconfigured slightly different from one to the next. Meet my in-laws one of these nights. Douglas Coupland
7) Raising children is like waging a war. There will be triumphs, defeats, casualties! Bernie Mack
8) The loveliest fairytale of childhood is that everything happens in order. Philip Roth
9) Love is my decision to make your problem my concern. Robert Schuller
LIFE, HAPPINESS, MORALS, EDUCATION
1) No one else can give you happiness after you become an adult. Happiness is self derived and self created. Ellen Gilchrist
2) If you do the right thing well, you avoid futility. Dr. Paul Farmer
3) Always do right. This will gratify some people and astonish the rest. Mark Twain
4) The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack of will. Anonymous
5) The only thing more expensive than education is ignorance. Anonymous
6) Q. What's the difference between ignorance and indifference
A. I don't know and I don't care. Saul Bellow
7) Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
Plato
8) I would love to be more patient. In fact, I would love to be patient. Manolo Blahnik
8) We do not do what we want, yet we are responsible for what we are. Sartre
POLITICS, LITERATURE, AND MUSIC
1) When something is bothering me, I seek refuge. No need to travel far; a trip to the realm of literary memory will suffice. For where can one find more noble distraction, more entertaining company, more delightful enchantment than in literature? Barbery
2) One of the penalties of refusing to participate in politics is that you end up being governed by your
inferiors. Plato
3) Without music, life would be a mistake. Friedrich Nietzsche
4) There's no spectacle that is as terrifying as the sight of a guest in your house whom you catch staring at your books. Not because the browser is going to criticize your reading tastes, but because you fear he's going to ask to borrow a book. Roger Rosenblatt
PAIN, AGING, DEATH
1) Pain is inevitable, Suffering is optional. H Murakami
2) We mustn't forget old people....And where's the joy in these final hours that they ought to be making the most of? But if you dread tomorrow, it's because you don't know how to build the present. Barbery
3) Maybe all one can do is hope to end with the right regrets. Arthur Miller
4) The only infallible truth of our lives is that everything we love in life will be taken from us.
Dave Eggers
And a Final quote from One B:
You do it well, you get the fame. You screw up, you get the blame.
Peace Out-One B
Sunday, December 2, 2018
December-A time for the movies, NYC shows, hot chocolate and hunkering down to binge watch some television
The cold weather is setting in and we all will have lots of time to catch up on our favorite shows and movies. Before you hunker down you should consider gathering up some libations. Head over to the Jersey Artisan Distillery at 32C Pier Lane West in Fairfield, N.J.
They originally produced Busted Barrel Silver and Busted Barrel Dark Rum. However, they have now created a Sorghum Whiskey(86 proof) which begins like a rum and is aged like a bourbon in a new white oak barrel. They also make coffee infused Morena Rum and Hard Ice rum infused Sorbet. This sounds like a perfect alternative to Egg Nog during this holiday season.
Tours and tastings happen the second Saturday of each month. Go to their website for more tour information and where in N.J. you can purchase their products.
If you prefer some hot chocolate for cold winter nights, try and obtain Kate Weiser's Chocolate Carl the Snowman. It is often sold out on Amazon and at Neiman's. This is a great gift for kids. The snowman has a belly full of hot cocoa mix and a head full of marshmallows. Place him on top of a pot of heating milk and he dissolves into delicious hot chocolate that serves 5-8. This is a great gift and it is fun and delicious. $38.
Now that we have our beverages ready, let's discuss the television shows I have seen and want to see during the next few months.
NETFLIX
The Kominsky Method (watched all episodes). Series created by Chuck Lorre. Starring Michael Douglas as Sandy Kominsky, an aging acting coach and Alan Arkin as Norman Newlander, who is Kominsky's longtime agent. Fabulous-highly recommend it.
House of Cards- (watched all episodes). Season 6 is sadly and correctly without Kevin Spacey, but Robin Wright is just as diabolical portraying the President as he was. This season has a star studded cast: Michael Kelly, Campbell Scott, Patricia Clarkson, Greg Kinnear, and Diane Lane. I really enjoyed this. Recommend it.
I'm Sorry-(watched the first 3 episodes). A sitcom about a comedy writer who is also a wife and mom. I think the series is very funny and I especially found the first ten minutes of the Episode 1 hilarious. Give it a try. There are lots of laughs.
Private Life (movie)- I don't think I watched the entire movie as of yet-can't remember! About a older couple coping with infertility. Starring Kathryn Hahn and Paul Giamatti. Worth a look.
West Side-(haven't watched). Reality series about musicians who share the spotlight and pursue their dreams. If you enjoy music and reality t.v., then I suppose you would enjoy this.
Bodyguard-(haven't watched). This was recommended to me and sounds intriguing. It is a story about a military Vet who thwarts a suicide bomber from blowing up a train. Now a hero, he is promoted to protect a conservative politician. Looking forward to binge watching this one.
AMAZON PRIME
Homecoming-(watched all episodes). Julia Roberts and Bobby Cannavale star in the series seemingly about a caseworker for a facility that helps to transition soldiers back to civilian life. Watch this-it's very good. I recommend it!
Catastrophe-(watched a few episodes). A comedy about the romance of an American man and an Irish Woman that takes place in London. Not the top of my list, but cute.
Jack Ryan-(watched first episode). Taken from the Tom Clancy Novel, this thriller is about a former U.S. marine who will ultimately become a CIA analyst. John Krasinski stars. This is good, especially for couples who want to watch something together for a change.
The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel-(watched all of first season). All of us are anxiously awaiting Season 2 which airs Dec. 5th. This is a must see series. Totally delightful-LOVE.
HBO
Dirty John-(originally a hit podcast which I listened to.) Currently airing on HBO and although I know the story, I find it very interesting. Connie Britton and Eric Bana star in the series which is about a lonely interior designer who finds love with a charismatic, charming doctor. Her kids suspect is he a bad dude right at the outset of their relationship. But is he? I recommend this.
SHO
Escape from Dannemore-(I have not watched any of this yet). Based on a real life prison break, it stars Benicio Del Toro, Patricia Arquette, and Paul Dano. An employee of a prison helps two inmates escape after falling in love with one of them. The final episode is directed by Ben Stiller and is supposed to be fabulous. So I will watch this for sure.
MOVIES AT THE THEATER
Green Book-Dr. Dan Shirley is a world class African American pianist. He hires a racist white man to become his driver. Vigo Mortensen and Mahershala Ali are extraordinary as the main characters. Run don't walk-movie of the year!
Widows-Despite great reviews, I found this to be a bit ho hum. Has an all star cast including Viola Davis and Liam Neeson. The plot is about a police shootout that leaves four thieves dead, and what their widows decide to do when they are left in debt. Entertaining, I guess, but wait to watch on demand.
Creed 2-Sly Stallone is now the trainer for Apollo Creed's son, Adonis. I loved this movie because I am now watching the Rocky series with my 6 year old. After introducing him to Rocky 1 and Rocky 2, we went to see this. We both enjoyed it immensely. Take the kids if they like boxing!
NYC SHOWS
To Kill A Mockingbird-This is by far one of my favorite books and one of my favorite movies. The story is forever indelibly etched upon my mind. It is a true masterpiece and I was so looking forward to this adaptation by Aaron Sorkin. However, I didn't like this sophomoric production at all.
The portrayal of Scout was horrid. She was way too old for the part and was shrill. Jem was a terrible actor and brought nothing to the role. Dill, who was a favorite character of mine in the book, showed no complexity or character development in the play. In fact, that is how I felt about most of the characters including Calpurnia, the maid; Boo Radley, the mysterious neighbor; and Jeff Daniels as Atticus Finch. I know this play got some good reviews and many of the group I saw it with, enjoyed the play. So go see it and decide for yourself. You may love it!
The Waverly Gallery-I was so looking forward to this show as well. With an all star cast including Elaine May, who was amazing as an old woman with progressing Alzheimer Disease; Joan Allen as her daughter, Lucas Hedges as the grandson and Michael Cera as an artist; I expected a fabulous show. Everyone besides Elaine May was so subdued-they barely acted. It was a flat production with mediocre acting that could have been played by amateurs. We were disappointed after the first act and kept hoping the second act would be better. But, it was just as bad as the first act. I do not recommend this.
Downstairs-I am seeing this Wednesday. Starring Tyne Daly and her brother, Tim Daly. The play is about siblings that have a dysfunctional family relationship. We can all relate to relatives that are quirky. But this also examines domestic abuse and ties that bind us to each other. I am looking forward to watching these two performances, and hope this is a better production than the above two I have seen.
The Ferryman-Directed by Sam Mendes. Has won a zillion awards. About a reformed IRA activist and his family. I know nothing about this except everyone says it is a must see. It is 3 hours and 15 minutes, so make sure you pee before it starts! Seeing this play next weekend, so I will let you know my thoughts.
These recommendations ought to keep you busy during the winter months! Ladies if you feel the need to revitalize yourselves from all the drying effects of the outside cold and indoor heating, here are a few ideas for you.
Aveeno has just come out with a new line called Maxglo. Try the infusion drops or the serum/primer. Available at CVS. $19.99
Jergens Brillance Skin Illuminating Lotion. A body moisturizer that delivers a gorgeous shimmer. Available Target, CVS, Walgreens. $14.99
Revlon Candid Foundation-this foundation incorporates anti-pollution and anti-blue light ingredients that protect you from phone and computer screens. 31 shades. Available at Ulta. $10.99
Honest Eyeshadow Palette-a mix of mattes, shimmers, and satins. Not tested on animals and formaldehyde-free. Available at Target. $19.99
Covergirl's new Exhibitionist lipsticks-Forty shades of lasting color and made with shea butter to keep lips soft. Available at Amazon and Ulta and CVS. $5.99
Soap and Glory Lip Contouring Crayon- Double ended crayon to line, shape, and soften. Available at Target and Ulta. $12.00
Milani Rose Blush Trio Palette-three shades worn together or alone from matte to shimmer. Comes in two options: Flowers of Love or Floral Fantasy. Available at Walgreens or Milani's website. $12.99
They originally produced Busted Barrel Silver and Busted Barrel Dark Rum. However, they have now created a Sorghum Whiskey(86 proof) which begins like a rum and is aged like a bourbon in a new white oak barrel. They also make coffee infused Morena Rum and Hard Ice rum infused Sorbet. This sounds like a perfect alternative to Egg Nog during this holiday season.
Tours and tastings happen the second Saturday of each month. Go to their website for more tour information and where in N.J. you can purchase their products.
If you prefer some hot chocolate for cold winter nights, try and obtain Kate Weiser's Chocolate Carl the Snowman. It is often sold out on Amazon and at Neiman's. This is a great gift for kids. The snowman has a belly full of hot cocoa mix and a head full of marshmallows. Place him on top of a pot of heating milk and he dissolves into delicious hot chocolate that serves 5-8. This is a great gift and it is fun and delicious. $38.
Now that we have our beverages ready, let's discuss the television shows I have seen and want to see during the next few months.
NETFLIX
The Kominsky Method (watched all episodes). Series created by Chuck Lorre. Starring Michael Douglas as Sandy Kominsky, an aging acting coach and Alan Arkin as Norman Newlander, who is Kominsky's longtime agent. Fabulous-highly recommend it.
House of Cards- (watched all episodes). Season 6 is sadly and correctly without Kevin Spacey, but Robin Wright is just as diabolical portraying the President as he was. This season has a star studded cast: Michael Kelly, Campbell Scott, Patricia Clarkson, Greg Kinnear, and Diane Lane. I really enjoyed this. Recommend it.
I'm Sorry-(watched the first 3 episodes). A sitcom about a comedy writer who is also a wife and mom. I think the series is very funny and I especially found the first ten minutes of the Episode 1 hilarious. Give it a try. There are lots of laughs.
Private Life (movie)- I don't think I watched the entire movie as of yet-can't remember! About a older couple coping with infertility. Starring Kathryn Hahn and Paul Giamatti. Worth a look.
West Side-(haven't watched). Reality series about musicians who share the spotlight and pursue their dreams. If you enjoy music and reality t.v., then I suppose you would enjoy this.
Bodyguard-(haven't watched). This was recommended to me and sounds intriguing. It is a story about a military Vet who thwarts a suicide bomber from blowing up a train. Now a hero, he is promoted to protect a conservative politician. Looking forward to binge watching this one.
AMAZON PRIME
Homecoming-(watched all episodes). Julia Roberts and Bobby Cannavale star in the series seemingly about a caseworker for a facility that helps to transition soldiers back to civilian life. Watch this-it's very good. I recommend it!
Catastrophe-(watched a few episodes). A comedy about the romance of an American man and an Irish Woman that takes place in London. Not the top of my list, but cute.
Jack Ryan-(watched first episode). Taken from the Tom Clancy Novel, this thriller is about a former U.S. marine who will ultimately become a CIA analyst. John Krasinski stars. This is good, especially for couples who want to watch something together for a change.
The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel-(watched all of first season). All of us are anxiously awaiting Season 2 which airs Dec. 5th. This is a must see series. Totally delightful-LOVE.
HBO
Dirty John-(originally a hit podcast which I listened to.) Currently airing on HBO and although I know the story, I find it very interesting. Connie Britton and Eric Bana star in the series which is about a lonely interior designer who finds love with a charismatic, charming doctor. Her kids suspect is he a bad dude right at the outset of their relationship. But is he? I recommend this.
SHO
Escape from Dannemore-(I have not watched any of this yet). Based on a real life prison break, it stars Benicio Del Toro, Patricia Arquette, and Paul Dano. An employee of a prison helps two inmates escape after falling in love with one of them. The final episode is directed by Ben Stiller and is supposed to be fabulous. So I will watch this for sure.
MOVIES AT THE THEATER
Green Book-Dr. Dan Shirley is a world class African American pianist. He hires a racist white man to become his driver. Vigo Mortensen and Mahershala Ali are extraordinary as the main characters. Run don't walk-movie of the year!
Widows-Despite great reviews, I found this to be a bit ho hum. Has an all star cast including Viola Davis and Liam Neeson. The plot is about a police shootout that leaves four thieves dead, and what their widows decide to do when they are left in debt. Entertaining, I guess, but wait to watch on demand.
Creed 2-Sly Stallone is now the trainer for Apollo Creed's son, Adonis. I loved this movie because I am now watching the Rocky series with my 6 year old. After introducing him to Rocky 1 and Rocky 2, we went to see this. We both enjoyed it immensely. Take the kids if they like boxing!
NYC SHOWS
To Kill A Mockingbird-This is by far one of my favorite books and one of my favorite movies. The story is forever indelibly etched upon my mind. It is a true masterpiece and I was so looking forward to this adaptation by Aaron Sorkin. However, I didn't like this sophomoric production at all.
The portrayal of Scout was horrid. She was way too old for the part and was shrill. Jem was a terrible actor and brought nothing to the role. Dill, who was a favorite character of mine in the book, showed no complexity or character development in the play. In fact, that is how I felt about most of the characters including Calpurnia, the maid; Boo Radley, the mysterious neighbor; and Jeff Daniels as Atticus Finch. I know this play got some good reviews and many of the group I saw it with, enjoyed the play. So go see it and decide for yourself. You may love it!
The Waverly Gallery-I was so looking forward to this show as well. With an all star cast including Elaine May, who was amazing as an old woman with progressing Alzheimer Disease; Joan Allen as her daughter, Lucas Hedges as the grandson and Michael Cera as an artist; I expected a fabulous show. Everyone besides Elaine May was so subdued-they barely acted. It was a flat production with mediocre acting that could have been played by amateurs. We were disappointed after the first act and kept hoping the second act would be better. But, it was just as bad as the first act. I do not recommend this.
Downstairs-I am seeing this Wednesday. Starring Tyne Daly and her brother, Tim Daly. The play is about siblings that have a dysfunctional family relationship. We can all relate to relatives that are quirky. But this also examines domestic abuse and ties that bind us to each other. I am looking forward to watching these two performances, and hope this is a better production than the above two I have seen.
The Ferryman-Directed by Sam Mendes. Has won a zillion awards. About a reformed IRA activist and his family. I know nothing about this except everyone says it is a must see. It is 3 hours and 15 minutes, so make sure you pee before it starts! Seeing this play next weekend, so I will let you know my thoughts.
These recommendations ought to keep you busy during the winter months! Ladies if you feel the need to revitalize yourselves from all the drying effects of the outside cold and indoor heating, here are a few ideas for you.
Aveeno has just come out with a new line called Maxglo. Try the infusion drops or the serum/primer. Available at CVS. $19.99
Jergens Brillance Skin Illuminating Lotion. A body moisturizer that delivers a gorgeous shimmer. Available Target, CVS, Walgreens. $14.99
Revlon Candid Foundation-this foundation incorporates anti-pollution and anti-blue light ingredients that protect you from phone and computer screens. 31 shades. Available at Ulta. $10.99
Honest Eyeshadow Palette-a mix of mattes, shimmers, and satins. Not tested on animals and formaldehyde-free. Available at Target. $19.99
Covergirl's new Exhibitionist lipsticks-Forty shades of lasting color and made with shea butter to keep lips soft. Available at Amazon and Ulta and CVS. $5.99
Soap and Glory Lip Contouring Crayon- Double ended crayon to line, shape, and soften. Available at Target and Ulta. $12.00
Milani Rose Blush Trio Palette-three shades worn together or alone from matte to shimmer. Comes in two options: Flowers of Love or Floral Fantasy. Available at Walgreens or Milani's website. $12.99
Wednesday, November 28, 2018
Crinkles and Bonies
In the past month I have had the misfortune of several family members (spanning form the ages of 15 months to 94 years) needing some type of medical attention.
Truthfully, the stress you experience when your spouse, grandchild, parent, or child becomes ill cannot be underestimated. It doesn't matter how minor or major an issue-it causes anxiety and worry.
Having had my fair share of family members that have sought expert medical attention for their various issues, I would like to share my recent observations and thoughts.
FIRST AND FOREMOST-I don't care how brilliant a Doctor is, or what schools he/she attended. They are only as good as their front desk and nursing staff. In a dire situation, one must be able to consult with the doctor quickly or be able to get in to see the doctor as soon as possible. ( I am not referring to a situation where you clearly should be calling 911). If the desk is not compassionate; or trained to ask relevant questions; and/or smart enough to relay the message to the doctor: you are SCREWED-period. My rule of thumb: I have to love the way the Front Desk operates and consistently treats the patient. And, this essentially goes back to the Doctor and his instructions to the staff.
SECOND-Every patient must have an advocate. It does not matter how young, how old, or how alert/ or of sound mind they are-there must be someone else listening to what the doctor is saying. When you are having an issue, it is hard to focus on the doctor's evaluation, instructions, and diagnosis. I always like to bring my spouse or a daughter with me when I have a major medical issue to make if it is in regard to a change in health, or a medication, or upcoming surgery. (No-I don't take someone to my teeth cleanings or the podiatrist!)
THIRD-Get more than one opinion if this is something serious; requires medication you are weary about, or the physician is suggesting imminent surgery. I often get several diagnoses and see how the various specialists line up with the suggested treatment of the first Physician. I can't begin to tell you how many times surgery or a medication was suggested to me, and I didn't go through with it. And it turned out to be the absolute best decision for me to remain conservative. Again, I am not talking about taking the decision to take mucinex vs. advil!
FOURTH-Arm yourself with a little knowledge. Too much internet research can make you crazy and have you imminently dying, so be careful with the computer. But, you should ask intelligent questions. Come prepared and have your meds written down, and your questions written down. Ask about what tests would better help evaluate the illness. Ask about what medications and diet you should you start or stop during this illness.
FIFTH-Discuss the issue with friends (if you feel comfortable doing so). Someone always knows
THE BEST DOCTOR for the issue. Someone can get you into the see the Specialist faster instead of waiting 3 more months. Be willing to accept help from others. Yes, it is uncomfortable to ask a favor of an acquaintance or a friend of a friend, but I know I would do the same for someone else. Do not be afraid to reach out and ask for help-it truly saves lives. In more than one instance, it has helped my family and we are forever grateful to those who went out of their way for us.
SIXTH-Weigh your options. Think about the best possible solution for YOU. Don't rush to do a procedure if is not absolutely necessary. Sometimes what a friend or relative would do in a similar situation isn't necessarily right for your specific ailment.
SEVENTH-Make your homes safe. If you have infants and toddlers around, install gates, childproof latches, bolt your dressers, bookcases, and large TV's to the walls. Remove glass objects, poison/pills, etc. that are under sinks.
If you are aging, or have elderly parents, install shower, tub, and toilet grab bars. Remove all area rugs. Put rubber grips on the floors of showers and baths. Buy medic alert necklaces and keep them charged and wear them.
EIGTH-if you can afford it, invest in Long term care insurance. Today there are great products out there by Prudential that offer Life insurance benefits combined with long term care benefits. You use the long term care if you need it, or it remains as life insurance with death benefits if you don't. Everyone thinks they'll never need long term care. But, if you have had an aging parent who needed around the clock care or had an illness that lasted for years, you realize how important a long term care policy is. Make sure you have the option of staying at home with an aide OR going into a facility depending on your preference. Believe me-this is the best way to avoid being a burden to your children. It is a gift to both you and your children.
FINALLY-Everyone wants to fiercely hold on to their independence. The best way to remain independent is to accept HELP. Ultimately,this will prolong your life and make the quality of your life infinitely better.
{My six year old grandson, Max, recently asked me: " Nonni, why do you have so many crinkles? I asked, do you mean Wrinkles? He said YES! And I responded , that is what happens when you get old!"
Recently, one of my oldest friends told her toddler granddaughter, "Ida, what beautiful soft skin she had. And her granddaughter replied, But, Soffie, why do you have so many bonies on you face and hands? Again, my friend replied: because that's what happens when you get old!"}
Yes,we are all going to grow old eventually- and, that is so much better than the alternative!!!! Live every minute like it matters! Keep moving and enjoy life!
Now a major shout out to my daughter and son in law, who are pregnant with number 2!
So thrilled to be on the cusp of being a Nonni for the 5th time! It's the best job in the world.
Peace Out-One B
Truthfully, the stress you experience when your spouse, grandchild, parent, or child becomes ill cannot be underestimated. It doesn't matter how minor or major an issue-it causes anxiety and worry.
Having had my fair share of family members that have sought expert medical attention for their various issues, I would like to share my recent observations and thoughts.
FIRST AND FOREMOST-I don't care how brilliant a Doctor is, or what schools he/she attended. They are only as good as their front desk and nursing staff. In a dire situation, one must be able to consult with the doctor quickly or be able to get in to see the doctor as soon as possible. ( I am not referring to a situation where you clearly should be calling 911). If the desk is not compassionate; or trained to ask relevant questions; and/or smart enough to relay the message to the doctor: you are SCREWED-period. My rule of thumb: I have to love the way the Front Desk operates and consistently treats the patient. And, this essentially goes back to the Doctor and his instructions to the staff.
SECOND-Every patient must have an advocate. It does not matter how young, how old, or how alert/ or of sound mind they are-there must be someone else listening to what the doctor is saying. When you are having an issue, it is hard to focus on the doctor's evaluation, instructions, and diagnosis. I always like to bring my spouse or a daughter with me when I have a major medical issue to make if it is in regard to a change in health, or a medication, or upcoming surgery. (No-I don't take someone to my teeth cleanings or the podiatrist!)
THIRD-Get more than one opinion if this is something serious; requires medication you are weary about, or the physician is suggesting imminent surgery. I often get several diagnoses and see how the various specialists line up with the suggested treatment of the first Physician. I can't begin to tell you how many times surgery or a medication was suggested to me, and I didn't go through with it. And it turned out to be the absolute best decision for me to remain conservative. Again, I am not talking about taking the decision to take mucinex vs. advil!
FOURTH-Arm yourself with a little knowledge. Too much internet research can make you crazy and have you imminently dying, so be careful with the computer. But, you should ask intelligent questions. Come prepared and have your meds written down, and your questions written down. Ask about what tests would better help evaluate the illness. Ask about what medications and diet you should you start or stop during this illness.
FIFTH-Discuss the issue with friends (if you feel comfortable doing so). Someone always knows
THE BEST DOCTOR for the issue. Someone can get you into the see the Specialist faster instead of waiting 3 more months. Be willing to accept help from others. Yes, it is uncomfortable to ask a favor of an acquaintance or a friend of a friend, but I know I would do the same for someone else. Do not be afraid to reach out and ask for help-it truly saves lives. In more than one instance, it has helped my family and we are forever grateful to those who went out of their way for us.
SIXTH-Weigh your options. Think about the best possible solution for YOU. Don't rush to do a procedure if is not absolutely necessary. Sometimes what a friend or relative would do in a similar situation isn't necessarily right for your specific ailment.
SEVENTH-Make your homes safe. If you have infants and toddlers around, install gates, childproof latches, bolt your dressers, bookcases, and large TV's to the walls. Remove glass objects, poison/pills, etc. that are under sinks.
If you are aging, or have elderly parents, install shower, tub, and toilet grab bars. Remove all area rugs. Put rubber grips on the floors of showers and baths. Buy medic alert necklaces and keep them charged and wear them.
EIGTH-if you can afford it, invest in Long term care insurance. Today there are great products out there by Prudential that offer Life insurance benefits combined with long term care benefits. You use the long term care if you need it, or it remains as life insurance with death benefits if you don't. Everyone thinks they'll never need long term care. But, if you have had an aging parent who needed around the clock care or had an illness that lasted for years, you realize how important a long term care policy is. Make sure you have the option of staying at home with an aide OR going into a facility depending on your preference. Believe me-this is the best way to avoid being a burden to your children. It is a gift to both you and your children.
FINALLY-Everyone wants to fiercely hold on to their independence. The best way to remain independent is to accept HELP. Ultimately,this will prolong your life and make the quality of your life infinitely better.
{My six year old grandson, Max, recently asked me: " Nonni, why do you have so many crinkles? I asked, do you mean Wrinkles? He said YES! And I responded , that is what happens when you get old!"
Recently, one of my oldest friends told her toddler granddaughter, "Ida, what beautiful soft skin she had. And her granddaughter replied, But, Soffie, why do you have so many bonies on you face and hands? Again, my friend replied: because that's what happens when you get old!"}
Yes,we are all going to grow old eventually- and, that is so much better than the alternative!!!! Live every minute like it matters! Keep moving and enjoy life!
Now a major shout out to my daughter and son in law, who are pregnant with number 2!
So thrilled to be on the cusp of being a Nonni for the 5th time! It's the best job in the world.
Peace Out-One B
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