Thursday, November 1, 2018

Welcome Will!

A few weeks ago I was blessed with my fourth grandchild! I can unequivocally say that there is no greater joy in this world. Of course, my Wedding day and the Births of my two girls rank right up there, but a grandchild is completely unique. It is amazing to watch your baby parent her baby.
For those of you that have not yet been blessed with becoming a grandparent, it's hard to describe the emotions. And for those of you that have been blessed already, you will recognize all that I feel.
  First let me site a quote by Frederick Douglas: In reference to raising children, he says:
"It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken (wo)men.


I trust that my girls and their husbands, who are bright, accomplished, incredible people will do their best to raise moral, strong, curious, and kind children. Where I come in, is to hopefully supplement those values; to increase their joy of life, to keep them engaged and curious about everything on this planet. I admit that in this world of smart phones, I pads, and television in every room that this can be a bit challenging. I try hard to communicate at each meal that we are together. No one should be looking at their phones and often parents and grandparents are the rule breakers. We must consciously set an example for the children and communicate with one another. And during bottle feeding, talk to your baby. Don't look at your phone. They can follow your voice and listen to you sing. I see Will responding to sound all day long. Believe me, it is so important!


  But most of all, I think a grandparent should show love unconditionally. No strings attached. I want to spoil them rotten, but teach them right from wrong at the same time.
Be kind to everyone. Cherish everyone's differences. Don't bully. Don't tattle. Be Respectful.
Study hard.
Don't lie.
Love School and Learning.
Love Camp and Playing.
Value Friends and Relatives.
Look people in the eye and say hello.


 I want to keep them safe (that means no Halloween Candy that can be unwrapped and rewrapped!), Take my hand when you cross the street, and don't run away from me in a parking lot.
Know your phone number and address. Don't get into a car with a stranger.
Don't jump in the bathtub! Don't jump off furniture! Don't swing from the chandelier!


I want to be there for them always. I want to listen and really hear what they say. I often ask how was your day? Now tell me the rose of the day-tell me the thorn. I want to encourage them to be confident in who they are and what they want to do.  I want them to always have fun with me.
But most of all, I want to be in their hearts.
And I want to be in their lives for as long as I can.


Each and every minute I spend with my four grandchildren is a blessing. I cherish them and how they have changed my life. It is an honor to be called Nonni.



Friday, October 5, 2018

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October-My Favorite Month

October is the reason that people who love the change of seasons, live in parts of the country that have all the seasons. It is by far the most fabulous time of year: there are the baseball playoffs (what is better than a Yankees/ Red Sox series-GO YANKEES!); the world series; football; leaves changing to beautiful colors; and of course, Halloween! Can you imagine a better holiday than one that allows you to dress up in a fun costume AND eat a ton of candy?
   As Van Morrison says: "And all the night's magic seems to whisper and hush
                                           And all the soft moonlight seems to shine in your blush"


I have lots to report on: First I will discuss NEW PRODUCTS:
1) Shingrex-the newest Shingles shot. A newer version which is said to be 90% effective. It is given
    in a 2 dose series administered between 2-6 months after the first shot. The old shingles shot
    Zostavax was only 50-60% effective. If you got Zostavax, it is still recommended to take the
    Shingrex vaccines. It is in high demand and not easily found these days. Many places are out of it.
2) Hair Mists-the newest craze is hair mist in lieu of perfumes. Some really nice scents are: Gucci's
    Bloom ($45) and Tocca's Cleopatra ($28).
3) Red Lip Balm/Powder Duo-Chanel makes this duo in three shades. The cost is $37. This is a
    limited edition that features a matte powder that can be worn alone or mixed with the moisturizer
    balm for a blurred effect on either cheeks or lips.
4)Indochino-a new men's store in the Short Hills Mall and with several locations around the country.
   "Your suit your way." Custom made suits starting at $369.00.
5)Thrive Brilliant Eye Brightener- helps make you look like you had an instant eyelift. Comes in two shades. $24 and available only on line.
6) Augustinus Bader Rich Cream-if you are going for the big bucks ($265) you should try this! This
    Professor has developed gels for burn victims. This product boasts no need for serums or toners. If 
     you use this moisturizer both day and night, it supposedly activates the body's own systems to
     repair and regenerate.


FOOD
1)Randall's BBQ-359 Grand Street, NYC.  Supposedly the Pastrami Sandwich is off the charts. $16.
2)JG Melon's -1291 3rd Ave., NYC. Known for the best burgers and cheesecake. Haven't been there
                        in years. Average price of a burger is $12 and the cheesecake is $8.25.
3)Do-550 La Guardia Place, NYC. One scoop of cookie dough goes for $4.00. Kids love it!
4)Primo Mercato-opening very soon in the Short Hills Mall. New Italian Restaurant opening and
   replacing Joe's American Bar and Paparazzi.
5) DP's Pub-732 River Dr. A, Garfield. Divey spot recommended for mussels, shrimp, scallops and
    clams prepared in a variety of ways. Can't wait to try since I no longer have an allergy to
    shellfish!
6)Antika-578 Bloomfield Ave., Montclair. Mediterranean menu. Looks delicious. Reservations
   accepted. BYO.
7)Montclair Social Club-499 Bloomfield Ave., Montclair. Great menu with nibbles or entrees.
   Looks interesting.
8)Samba-7 Park Street, Montclair. Lovely Brazilian Menu offering vegan, beef, chicken, and fish.
   BYO. Reservations accepted.
   So lately, I having been craving linguini with white clam sauce. After doing a little research I have
   decided to try these restaurants that tout theirs as the best:
Paesano-136 Mulberry Street, NYC. Reservations accepted.
Da Nico-164 Mulberry Street, NYC. Reservations accepted.
Arno-141 West 38th Street, NYC.


PLACES
I have just one new spot to suggest taking your kids or grandkids to-it is the :
1)National Geographic Encounter Ocean Odyssey. This venue simulates us feeling like we
are underwater with all the creatures that inhabit the sea. You can purchase tickets and the time
and day you prefer in advance. This is strongly suggested.


NEW PODCASTS
If you are yearning for something to listen to while driving, walking or training to your next
destination, try these two new podcasts:
1)Countdown to Capture-Actually solving real life crimes in real time. Newport Police Dept.
2)Richard Clarke's The Future State-About Foreign Relations and how trade issues will impact the
    midterm elections.


INTERESTING NEWS STORY/TIP ON CBS
If you have an emergency and need to call 911, pay attention! If you have a landline, 911 can access your location easier than from your cell. But, if you call 911 from cell, try to give your location FIRST.And then you can discuss in detail what the emergency is. This will save responding time and hopefully lives.


BOOKS
PRINCESSES SAVE THE WORLD-the sequel to Savanna Guthrie's and Allie Oppenheim's
                                                             first book (Princesses Wear Pants). These are nice gifts
                                                             for all the little girls out there (especially with the present
                                                             political climate in regard to Women).


MOVIES
1)A Star Is Born-Bradley Cooper and Lady Gaga. Out today. Phenomenal Reviews. Can't wait to
   see it!
2)Colette-Keira Knightly. About a woman who ghost writes for her husband and doesn't get the c
                credit. Sounds a lot like The Wife that starred Glenn Close recently.
3)First Man-opening next week. Astronauts and the story of first men on the moon.




TELEVISION
Monday-8pm Channel 5. The Resident. Don't like it. Fair medical drama. Can't watch Emily
                                          Van Camp.
               9pm Channel 5.  911. Like this one but miss Connie Britton. Not a fan of Jennifer Love
                                           Hewitt, but like the show. Very graphic-weak stomachs beware.
              10pm Channel 4.  Manifest. When a flight lands after some turbulence, the people on board
                                            discover they've been missing for 5 years. Like it
              10pm Channel 7.The Good Doctor. Freddie Highmore is fabulous as a young surgeon with
                                           Autism. Love it!
Tuesday-9pm Channel 4.This is Us. As I mentioned before, I hate this show. Sappy, Sad, and
                                         manipulative. Simply horrid-but I'm the only one who thinks this!
               10pm Channel 4. New Amsterdam. Another medical drama. Inspired by N.Y. Bellevue
                                           Hospital, the oldest public hospital in the U.S. Like this one a lot.
Wednesday-8pm Channel 4. Chicago Fire
                    9pm Channel 4. Chicago Med
                   10pm Channel 4. Chicago PD
                    9:30pm Channel 7. Single Parents. Cute, nothing special. maybe a bit annoying.
                   10pm Channel 7. A Million Little Things. Like this one. Worth a look.
Thursday-9pm Channel 4. Will and Grace. Don't think this holds up anymore. Boring.
                 9:30pm Channel 4. I Feel Bad. Thought I might like it but I didn't. Not funny.
                 9pm Channel 2-Murphy Brown. If you liked it then, you'll love it now. Bergen is
                                           amazing, the writing is clever, and I agree with all of its political
                                           commentary. Opening episode is fabulous-especially the first 5
                                            minutes.
Saturday-11:30pm Channel 4. Saturday Night Live. Loved the opening with Matt Damon
                                                 playing Judge Kavanaugh. Simply Brilliant. And Kanye was
                                                 super weird as the musical guest. Adam Driver and Kanye make
                                                 strange (political) bedfellows.
Sunday-9pm SHO. Shameless. Always great. Never disappoints.
             10pmSHO. Kidding. Jim Carrey is pretty amazing. Don't love the show, but he is great.
             10pm HBO. Ballers. Love the Rock! Love the show. Spectacular season.










So I leave with this anonymous quote about crying babies on an airplane:


Those who get it don't require an apology.
Those who don't get it never will!


Hopefully, I'll be seeing a newborn crying baby very soon!
Enjoy this beautiful month because winter is just around the corner.
OneB
                                          
                                

Wednesday, September 12, 2018

Bagels, Blintzes, A Baby Boy, and Birthdays: Looking forward to all of it; Especially the Baby Boy

I'm Back!!  Wishing all my Jewish Friends A Happy and Healthy New Year & An Easy Fast. After the holidays, I will be anxiously awaiting the arrival of another grandchild (my fourth!). I will keep you posted. In the meantime, I have accumulated so much information that I had to write all of you just in case you felt like trying a new restaurant, seeing a movie, or strolling through a craft show.




RESTAURANTS I NEED TO TRY:


1) Wooden Spoon Southern Kitchen and Saloon-285 Glenwood Ave., Bloomfield.
     Smoked meats, fried chicken, shrimp and grits. Fun menu and a Bar!
2)Double Zero-103 U.S.46, Fairfield.
   16 Varieties of Pizza, 18 varieties of Pasta and many Italian entrĂ©e options. Sounds yummy.
3)Dozo Sushi-163 S. Livingston Ave., Livingston. Sushi, Sashimi, and Asian Entrees.
4)Kimchi Mama-691 Bloomfield Ave., West Caldwell. Counter seats or Take Out.
    Korean food.
5)Prime 94-94 Fairfield Road, Fairfield.
    Upscale Steakhouse. Fabulous Varied Menu with burgers, steaks, seafood and pasta.
6) Kai Yang-345 Bloomfield Ave., Montclair. Owners of Boon Thai in Livingston
     and Spice II in Montclair (which will be closing when Kai Yang opens).
     Specialties will be Thai Rotisserie Chicken and Thai Street Food.
7)Shan Shan Noodles-333 Rte. 46 East, Parsippany.  Hand Pulled Noodles
8)Tierney's Copperhouse-4 Little Falls Rd., Fairfield. Upscale Entrees and fun bar. Pricey
9)Sayola-38 Valley Rd., Montclair. Spanish Cuisine-tapas.
10)La Famiglia-359 Bloomfield Ave., Caldwell.
     Recently expanded and supposedly service and food have not kept up with the crowds. BYO
11)Don Juan-55 Kingsley Street, West Orange. Mexican/Latin food. Amazing menu. sounds
     delicious. BYO.
12)Coimbra-637 Market St., Newark. Portuguese. Great seafood, chicken, and beef options.
      Known for suckling pig if that's your thing. Open for lunch and dinner.
13) Pucciarello's-34 Ridgedale Ave., East Hanover. Owners of the former Cielo (of which I was
       not a fan). However I am told their inside out meatball is delish: spaghetti on the outside!
14) Ellen's Stardust Diner-1650 Broadway, NYC. This is a place I want to bring my grandchildren.
      Open all day with a staff that breaks into show tunes throughout your meal. Food is not why you
      would go! It's just fun for the kids.
15)Belle Harlem-2363 Adam Clayton Powell Jr. Blvd., NYC. Recommended by my foodie friend.
      Beautiful table in their kitchen. They take reservations and serve small and large plates.
      Limited menu. Sounds lovely.




UPCOMING FALL TELEVISION PROGRAMS: SOMETHING FOR EVERYONE
1)I Feel Bad-About a mom/boss/wife/friend/daughter. 9/19 at 10:30 NBC.
2)Forever-American Comedy about marriage. Starring Maya Rudolph and Fred Armisen.  Love them. Airing on 9/14 on Amazon Video.
3)The Cool Kids-Comedy about three friends in a retirement community. Vicki Lawrence, Martin
Mull, and David Alan Grier. Airing 9/28 at 8:30 on Fox.
4)Manifest-Drama that is about a turbulent flight that when it finally lands, the passengers  discover
   the world has aged 5 years! 9/24 at 10:00 p.m. on NBC.
5)Ozark-Season 2 drama about a family and a money laundering scheme that goes bad. Stars
    Laura Linney and Jason Bateman. Very good! On Netflix. Worth watching.
6)The Mayans-Next Chapter of Sons of Anarchy. Son of a Latino family and golden boy tries to
    lead a productive life but encounters border violence. 9/18 at 10p.m. on FX.
7)Single Parents-Sitcom about a group of parents that form a support group, 9/26 at 9:30 on ABC.
8)Jack Ryan-Tom Clancy's Jack Ryan is in the CIA and leaves his desk job to solve crime through-
   out the Middle East and Europe. Staring John Krasinkski. Amazon Prime.
9)The Ranch-Football player returns home to run the family ranch. Ashton Kutcher and Sam
    Elliot. In the 3rd season. On Netflix.


MOVIES I WANT TO SEE
1)Bohemian Rhapsody-Biopic of Freddy Mercury, lead singer of Queen. Release 10/24.
2)A Simple Favor-Thriller about a mommy blogger(!) seeking to uncover the truth about her
   best friend's disappearance. Anna Kendrick and Blake Lively. Release 9/14.
3)White Boy Rick-Matthew McConaughey. True story about a single father struggling to raise
    two teens during 1980's in Detroit. Release 9/13.
4) Life Itself-Multi generational love story spanning decades and continents and all are connected
    by one event. Great Cast: Olivia Wilde, Oscar Isaac, Samuel Jackson. Antonio Banderas, Mandy
    Patinkin, and Annette Bening. 9/21 release date.




PRODUCTS THAT PIQUE MY INTEREST
1)Aviation Gin-I'm not a gin drinker, but Actor Ryan Reynolds is the owner. So I'd like to try it!
2)Cauliflower Gnocci-Made with 75% cauliflower, cassava flour, olive oil and sea salt. No wheat,
   sugar, dairy or eggs. 12 ounce bags for $2.69 at Trader Joe's.
3)Kelsey Nixon Popcorn Popper-Heat-safe glass container that microwaves 8 cups of popcorn.
   Comes in clear or four other colors. Available from HSN for $29.95. Fun house gift!


SOME OF THE NEW WORDS WEBSTER HAS ADDED
1)GOAT-greatest of all time.
2)Salty-feeling or showing resentment towards a person. Bitter.
3)TL;DR-too long; didn't read.
4)Hangry-my grandsons and I suffer from this! Irritable or angry due to hunger.
5)Woke-aware of and attentive to important facts and issues: especially racial and social injustices.




UPCOMING EVENTS IN THE AREA
9/15&9/16-Craft and Art Show in Anderson Park. Corner of Bellevue and N. Mountain Ave.
Upper Montclair. 10 a.m.-5p.m.


9/23-Millburn Street Fair. Rides, Music, Food, etc. Millburn Ave. 11 a.m.-5 p.m.


9/29-Food Truck and Craft Beer Festival! My kind of day! 8 Yogi Berra Drive in Little Falls.
 It is on the campus of Montclair State University. 12 p.m.-7 p.m.




May I remind all of you to REGISTER TO VOTE by 10/16 if you live and have not registered in New Jersey.
And Then PLEASE VOTE in the general election on November 6th!
And, if you are a snowbird, you may request an Absentee Ballot in person until Monday, Nov. 5th!
No matter who or what you believe in, I encourage you to get out and ROCK THE VOTE!




Finally, I leave you with a quote I recently heard about marriage.
"Marriage is like a deck of cards. At first you need a heart and a diamond.
Years later, you wish you had a club and a spade."


Peace Out-One B




   


   

Tuesday, August 28, 2018

Hot As Hades - So Chillin in the AC

I didn't think I would be blogging this month, but I have some time and it's too hot to be anywhere but inside.


Recently, I saw several movies:


Juliet Naked-Ethan Hawke, Chris O'Dowd, and Rose Byrne. Cute movie about an elusive rock star and an obsessive fan.  Nothing spectacular but I loved the cast.


Three Identical Strangers-Interesting Documentary about triplets who became separated at birth and raised by three different families. Very good!


The Black Klansman-Spike Lee's newest film about a black cop who infiltrates the Ku Klux Klan. The last scene is very powerful. Worth seeing.


Adore-Naomi Watts and Robin Wright. On Amazon. A silly movie about two best friends who have steamy affairs with each other's son's. Guys will like it!! Lots of Sex. Steamy.






Recommended New Jersey Restaurants I haven't tried yet:


The Brick House-Wyckoff, N.J. Bergen County Steakhouse. Pricey.


Chef's Table-Franklin Lakes, N.J. Authentic French Cuisine. Also Pricey.


Vine-Basking Ridge, N.J. Mediterranean meats American. Lovely Varied Menu. Something for everyone.


Pho-Bridgewater, N.J. Authentic Vietnamese beef based broths. Note: not many vegetarian options.


Churasco Grill-Lake Hiawatha, N.J. BYOB Argentinian and Peruvian dishes.


Don Juan Restaurant-West Orange, N.J. Hispanic and Mexican. Awesome Menu. Can't wait to go.






Best Seafood I ate during our Spring Lake Vacay:


Red's Lobster Pot-Point Pleasant Beach, N.J. Dockside Dining and a zillion options: Clams, Oysters, Scallops, Shrimp, and Lobster- fried, raw, steamed.  Fun for lunch!


Klein's-Belmar, N.J. -Fresh seafood, Pasta, and Sushi. Liked this a lot.


The Parker House-Sea Girt, N.J.-one of the nicer restaurants in the area. Pretty Victorian House with pretty deck where you can eat. Delicious seafood, steak, and other fare. Great for lunch or dinner.





Cool Items:


Lunch notes-by Cheree Berry. Set of  12. $12. Little notes to insert for your children's lunch. Adorable!


Ecoegg Stain Remover-$19.95 HSN or Amazon. Removes ink, red wine, olive oil, strawberry. Use on carpet or clothes.


Custom Clothing Stamp-$37 by Mabel's Labels. For Clothes and Books. Perfect for school and camp.


Unicorn Color Changing Umbrella-$14.99 at Nordstrom. Perfect Birthday gift for a girl 3 years and up.


Tecnis Symfony Lenses for eyes-New on the market. An Extended Depth of focus lens for cataracts. Lets you see near, intermediate and far distances. Wear glasses Less. Ask your eye dr.


Rx sight light adjustable lens-This allows the Dr. to adjust your eyesight up to 4 weeks after cataract surgery. It is the only FDA approved lens that can be customized through a power adjustment after implantation in the patient's eye. Again, ask your eye surgeon.


Rhopressa-newly FDA approved drug for open-angle glaucoma.  Lowers pressure/ taken once a day.
Vyzulta-Also fairly new and for open angle glaucoma.. Eye drop that helps lower pressure by draining fluid from the eye.






Upcoming Movies That Sound Interesting:


The Wife. Release date 8/17. Glenn Close. Read the Book. Story about a marriage between a famous author and his wife.


The Children Act. Release date 9/14. Emma Thompson. Adapted from an Ian McEwan novel.  About a  family court judge making life and death decisions about children's lives.


Bad Times at the El Royale. Release date 10/12.  Seven strangers with different secrets meet at a hotel and get one last shot at redemption. Stellar Cast-Jon Hamm, Dakota Johnson, Chris Hemsworth, Jeff Bridges, Nick Offerman, and Cynthia Erivo.






Next Book On My Reading List:


Maine by J. Courtney Sullivan.  Three generations of a family meet at the summer home and we visit the theme of dysfunctional families.






This Month's Favorite Quotes:


It's not how tall you get. It's if you keep your feet on the ground. (don't know the author)


People will forget what you said
People will forget what you did
But People will never forget how you make them feel.  (Maya Angelou)








Wishing Dani, Lily, and Owen the Happiest of Birthdays! I adore all of you and can't wait to celebrate with you.   Mom/Nonni (aka One B).















Thursday, August 16, 2018

Can't Wait For Family Vacay at The Shore and Shortly Thereafter it will be FALL-HURRAY!

I was walking into Wegman's the other morning and they were busy setting up displays for Fall and Halloween. Although it is way too early for that, it still put a smile on my face. The whole world loves summer but me!  Here are my July/August lists for you to peruse.


Books I've Read:
From the Corner of the Oval-Beck Dorey Stein. Working at Lulu Lemon, she answers a Craig's list
                                               ad and it lands her a job in Obama's Whitehouse. I liked this a lot!
Grist Mill Road-Christopher J. Yates. Three teenagers bound together by a terrible crime. Absorbing
                                               and scary. Liked!
Crazy Rich Asians-Kevin Kwan. Entertaining, fun, easy read. A good beach read.
A Place For Us-Fatima Farheen Mirza. First time novelist. Interesting story about an Indian Family
                                             living in America; keeping their identity and yet, trying to "fit in".
Mrs. Fletcher-Tom Perrotta. I'll just say it's about fetishes in human behavior. Love his writing.
My Ex-Life-Stephen McCauley. A divorced couple end up living under the same roof after 30 years.
                                              Enjoyable.
What We Were Promised-Lucy Tan. Beautiful first novel about modern day issues in China and
                                              Shanghai. Well done.


Next On My Reading List:
The Sunshine Sisters-Jane Green. Mom asks three estranged daughters to help end her life.
The Great Believers-Rebecca Makkai. What it was like to live in the time of Aids.
Educated-Tara Westover. A memoir about a girl born to survivalists and didn't go to school until 17.


Currently Watching on Television:
Better Call Saul-AMC. Season 4. Love this show! Bob Odenkirk is great!
Ballers-HBO.  Season 4.  All of you know that I love The Rock. Dwayne Johnson is the bomb.
Suits-USA. Season 8. Katherine Heigl joins the cast. Meghan Markle leaves. Hate the show!
The Affair-SHO. Season 4.  Don't really like this show, but I've dug in for too long to abandon.
Queen Sugar-Own. Season 3. One of the best written shows I watch. Love every second of it.


Movies I've Seen:
Eighth Grade-13 year old making her way through middle school. Well done!
Won't you Be My Neighbor?-About Fred Rodgers. Didn't like him until I saw the movie. Liked a lot.
Mission Impossible-Typical action packed sequel. Tom Cruise does incredible stunts. Fun.
The Black Klansman-Powerful Spike Lee. Very upsetting but very good. Last scenes bring it home.




Movies Coming Soon or Here:
Crazy Rich Asians-Highly rated on all reviews. Can't wait! (based on Kevin Kwan novel above).
Dog Days-62% on Rotten Tomatoes. Love story and dogs-what could be bad?
A Star is Born-Remake of the Streisand movie. This time Bradley Cooper and Lady Gaga. 10/5.
The Miseducation of Cameron Post-story about a girl and gay therapy conversion. Out now.
Active Measures-Putin's 30 year history. His influence on world events. Documentary. 8/31.




Food and Restaurants I want to try:
Haagen Daz Crispy trio layer Coconut and Chocolate Ice Cream.  Does anyone remember snowballs for dessert? Not the pink marshmallow cupcakes with coconut from Hostess. But rather a scoop of ice cream with chocolate sauce and coconut sprinkled on top. I used to love that as a child.


Bellisima Prosecco-Zero Sugar! And only 3 Weight Watcher Points! Slam Dunk....


Marcus Samuelson's new restaurant in Newark; Marcus B&P. 56 Halsey Street.


Zest-Faifield, NJ. Gluten Free and Dairy Free. acai bowls, smoothies, salads, baked goods.


Ok All-Next time I check in, there will be a cool, crisp feel in the air. Can't Wait!!!
 
One more thing:  A Big Shout out to Jud! Bravo for your Lawyer of the Year Honor. Well done and Well deserved. You're always #1 in my heart. xo, One B