Wednesday, May 23, 2018

Thirteen Reasons Why (I can't sleep, I crave chocolate, and why I am feeling down)

As Summer approaches and the temperatures rise, I find my insomnia at an all time high. With so much to be thankful for, I know that I shouldn't be struggling. But I am. And here are my issues:


1) There have been 22 school shootings so far this year: I am tired of funerals and moments of silence. It is time for the gun laws to change. The U.S. is getting scarier. How can we protect our children? I want to home school the world.
2) The Political discord in this country. I get up and go to bed (not to sleep) with CNN causing my stomach to literally ache. The violence, racism,  prejudice, and hate that is so pervasive and swirling around us makes me yearn for a large dose of Zoloft or a move to Canada.
3) The New Jersey School bus driver who made a u turn on route 80 and caused deaths. Didn't the company vet him? He had a horrendous driving record. Why was he hired?
4) My elderly parents living all alone in Florida. Enough said.
5) Philip Roth died yesterday. One of the all time great American authors.
6) John Updike is already dead (2009). My other all time favorite author.  Both writers had the same themes, but Updike  gave us the WASP viewpoint and Roth gave us the Jewish viewpoint!
7) It's summer. I hate the heat, the humidity, and truthfully, the hot sun. Give me Fall. And did we even have a Spring?
8) My newest aches, pains, wrinkles, and my degenerative toes and feet. No more pretty high heeled sandals. Those days are long gone.
9) It's not as easy to lose those last 5 lbs. as it once was. You work out more; you eat less. And still the scale doesn't cooperate. My clothes still fit, but the body has morphed into an unrecognizable sight. Why can't French fries, pizza, and cookies be healthy for you? Goodbye fast metabolism.
10) I have no one to play Mah Jongg with, and I don't know how to play Canasta!
11) I knew no one on the Billboard Music Awards except Salt N Pepa, En Vogue, and Janet Jackson. Who the hell is BTS, Khalid, Dua Lipa, and Karni B? God, do I feel old.
12) My grandsons are at the stage that they like their Ipads better than me.
13) Yanni vs. Laurel. For the record, I heard Yanni!

Wednesday, March 21, 2018

In A World Where You Can Be Anything, Be Kind (UnKnown)

On my recent trip to San Antonio and Austin, I came across this sign. San Antonio is a place that has so many incongruities.
   It is quite confusing that Texas is essentially Trump Country, yet 63% of San Antonio's population is Hispanic or Latino.  This is the largest majority-Hispanic city in America (as of  2010). How can this group who makes up over half of San Antonio be Trumpsters? He wants to build a wall and keep them from coming into the U.S. AND he wants to send the immigrants who have been living here for years, who pay taxes, and who lead productive lives with jobs back to their countries.
   Next, as I drove on the highway from Austin to San Antonio, I witnessed so many billboards advertising AR 15's, gun clubs, and gun stores. In this city founded by friars and named for a saint, you then see religious billboards posted intermittently between the AR 15 signs. God loves you; Think God; After you die, You WILL meet God, etc. Basically, you are inundated at every turn with these Christian signs.
   So, what I need to know is why these religious "Christian" God loving people are also loving guns, hating immigrants, and hating many other groups in our society? How can they possibly want a President who builds walls, perpetrates a culture of meanness, hate, divisiveness,  bullying, abuses women, and would rather appease the NRA than choose to keep our children and schools safe?  With that being said, I will tell you I didn't care for San Antonio. And maybe the above reasons  are why.
   Those aside, I will tell you a few things I did like in the Seventh largest city of America.
Of course, see the Riverwalk which is lovely between the hours of 7 a.m. and 9 a.m. This is the time you should choose to walk along the banks of the San Antonio River. It is beautiful, peaceful, and tourist free. By noon, the restaurants are booming with tourists and you can barely move-UGH, not for me. Next, Remember to go to The Alamo which was the location of a battle where Texans fought for independence against Mexicans ( the Mexicans finally overpowered them) until they gained independence in 1836,  walk through the King William Neighborhood which has beautiful historic homes from the Antebellum Period through Post WWII Era,  Visit the San Antonio Zoo which is fabulous. Finally, the only place to stay is Hotel Emma in The Pearl District. This is a beautiful boutique hotel with an awesome bar and the restaurants in The Pearl District area surrounding the hotel are fun too.
    Next stop, Austin. The SXSW Conference was happening while we there so it was a bit insane. The slogan in this city, which is absolutely beautiful, is Keep Austin Weird. Be prepared to party-it's a very happening town. I loved the food, the diversity, the music, the bats-it was all FUN!
   The buildings downtown are architecturally magnificent, so walk around and look up. The state capitol building is worth a trip-and take the tour. It is both fascinating and beautiful. Go to the LBJ Library and the Ladybird Wildlife Conservatory (only if flowers are in bloom)-the library was so informative and interesting. Skip the Zoo-it is chicken wire with a few rescued animals and truly a sad spot. Go to the bars on 6th Street-We loved Pete's Dueling Piano Bar; and Shop on SoCo (south of Congress) which has a few cute boutiques. But, my most favorite moment in Austin was watching the bats emerge from underneath the Ann W. Richards Congress Ave. Bridge. This happens at dusk-and it is quite a sight. As they emerge they fly into the sky and the sky literally becomes a mass of black. Totally cool. Must be amazing on Halloween Night.
    A couple of restaurant recommendations:  Bouldin Creek CafĂ© for breakfast or lunch, Forthright for lunch, Juniper is a pretty spot with good food for dinner, and Fonda San Miguel for traditional Mexican on your last night. And do not miss all the food trucks for bbq and lots of other yummy street food.
    O.K. - still feel like dancing when you get back to N.J.? I know of 3 places:
The Dome at The Manor-there is a rooftop bar and lounge. They have a Happy Hour from 5:30 -7:00 p.m. They serve bar food from 6-10:30p,m. and a D.J. from 9p.m.-2a.m.
Par 440-D.J. on Saturdays from 9:30p.m.-2a.m. $5 Martinis for Ladies!
Verona Inn-Bar food and Sat. nights a D.J. or live music.


Not in the mood to dance? Go for Ice Cream or Desserts at:
Sweet Kitchen-533 Bloomfield Ave. Montclair. Pastries, cakes, cookies.
Dairy Air-521 Bloomfield Ave. Montclair. Nitro infused ice cream. flaming ice cream sandwiches. Try Peppermint Fanny or Peanut Butt'r Booty.
Gelotti-571 Bloomfield Ave. Montclair. Try the Cookie Monster, Banana Oreo, Rice Pudding or the Maple Bourbon.


Until next time-peace out. One B





  

Saturday, March 3, 2018

So much information swirling in my mind. Notes are scattered everywhere. And today is the perfect weather to hang home and send you all my thoughts. First off are my Oscar Predictions. I have seen all the movies! Let's place bets on Faye and Warren making an encore presentation Sunday night-I'm betting yes, for sure. It should be hilarious.


Best Picture: Hard to pick between Three Billboards and The Shape of Water, but I'll go with Three Billboards.


Best Director: Guillermo Del Toro for The Shape of Water. Beautifully shot and brilliantly done. And, Sally Hawkins is equally deserving of the Best Actress Award. But....


Best Actress: Frances McDormand will win over Sally Hawkins, I think.


Best Actor: Truthfully, I did not think Gary Oldman was that great in Darkest Hour. I have watched John Lithgow in The Crown on Netflix, and I felt his performance as Churchill was truly amazing. I was not wowed by Oldman or The Darkest Hour. So my pick is Timothy Chalamet in Call Me By Your Name.
However, Oldman WILL get the Oscar.


Best Supporting Actress: Hands down Allison Janney should win for I, Tonya. And I think she will, but Laurie Metcalf was awesome as the mom in Ladybird.


Best Supporting Actor: Sam Rockwell in Three Billboards. This was my favorite performance this year. He was spectacular. Hands down-The Best.


Further thoughts: I saw The Post and Phantom Thread.  Although The Post was entertaining, it was not deserving as a Best Picture Nominee.  What can I say about Phantom Thread? It could be tied as the worst movie I have seen since Stormy Monday in 1988 with Sting and Melanie Griffith; and the original Flatliners in 1990 with Julia Roberts and Kiefer Sutherland. Horrendous.


OK-Where to eat before the Oscars...


Osteria Giotto Cafe-Church St. Montclair. Salads, Soups, Pastas, Sandwiches to go. Parking is tough and especially if you are only running in to pickup your takeout.  Known for their Lasagna.


Woodstack -Pine Brook. Haven't been, but have heard great things. Charred Pizzas, Delicious breads, and pastas. Supposedly a nice Sunday brunch menu. Full bar. Can't wait to try!


Giovanni's-Berkley Heights. Recommended highly for dinner. Make a reservation and give it a try.


Mezze-New Mediterranean in Livingston. Menu has lots of delicious options. Open for Lunch and Dinner.


Assado-New Portuguese Steakhouse in Livingston. Exterior looks lovely. Once inside it's a bit institutional. Food was mediocre and prices seemed high. Not a great combination.


Honey's-Fairfield. Tiny dive with delicious fresh food. Great for breakfast and lunch. Loved it!


Satis Bistro-Bloomfield. This town is having a major resurgence. Little restaurants are popping up near the train station and the new apartments.  Essex Junction started the trend.  Satis has a lovely menu, a great bar, and good food.


Marcus Samuelson's B & P-Newark. A very interesting menu and a great chef. Hopefully, this restaurant will draw lots of patrons. Looks fabulous.


Zeugma Grill-Montclair. Lovely Mediterranean menu with a wine bar. A bit pricey on the entrees, but you can go and order a few appetizers. Brunch, Lunch, Dinner.


Zaferon Grill-Verona. New Persian/Mediterranean restaurant. Interesting kebabs, flatbreads, burgers and entrees. BYOB.


Noble East-Montclair. Delicious, fresh Chinese food. More expensive than most other Chinese restaurants but white glove service, hot spa scented towels and lovely presentations make it worth the price. Known for Peking Duck. Give T.S. Ma a break and try this!


Closed-Above in South Orange. And Al Sogna in Montclair. Stay tuned-new restaurants coming to both locations.


Places on my NYC List that I want to try:


Upland-345 Park Ave. South
Pasquale Jones-187 Mulberry Street
Don Angie-103 Greenwich Avenue
Petee's Pie Company-61 Delancey Street
Underwest Donuts-638 West 47th Street at 12th Avenue


What to watch on Television, and What to Read, and Who to Listen to


Mozart in the Jungle-Amazon. This series grew on me. I didn't love the first few episodes, but ultimately it was a joy to watch. Gael Garcia Bernal and Malcolm McDowell are spectacular. And lots of classical music is a major bonus.


Last Tango in Halifax-Netflix or Amazon. Romantic Comedy about two widowed childhood sweethearts.


Man in High Castle-Amazon. Based on Philip Dick's novel. About what the world would look like if WWII had a different outcome.


The Looming Tower-Hulu. Starring Jeff Daniels and Alec Baldwin. Middle East Politics and Islamic terrorists.


Coming June 1st- A book by first time author, Fatima Farheen Mirza, called A Place For Us. This is published by Hogarth who just partnered with Sara Jessica Parker. They search for new authors and books that will knock your socks off. I love reading first time authors! Such a thrill.


Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics-by Dan Harris. For those of you who are gym rats but would like to get into meditating. Try this book.


The Wife-by Alifair Burke. How far will a wife go to protect the man she loves?




A new singer to listen to - Alice Merton. Go to youtube and listen to "no roots". She's really superb. Loving her.




Beauty Products and Cool Apps


Josie Maran Argan Moondrops-available at Sephora or QVC where it's a bit cheaper. Lovely oil and glow all at once. Super moisturizing.


Tarte Shapetape Concealer and Foundation-available at Sephora or QVC. Recommended to buy a shade lighter than your skin. Great product-beautiful coverage.


Josh Rosebrook Day Cream. It's a moisturizer with an SPF of 30. Pricey at $85.00. Available on line.


Maybelline Superstay Matte Ink Lip-lasts 16 hours. Ten Shades. $9.50. At CVS.


I Track Bites App-put in your diet plan: calories, weight watchers, etc. Track what you eat for free.
Like this better than E Tools from Weight Watchers.


MorningSave.com- Deals from a bunch of television shows. Recently saw a deebot vacuum and mop for $199 instead of $400! Lots of great bargains. Check out this site. Lots of great bargains.


And finally, if Comcast is out and you have no television: check out the podcast Dirty John. That's what I will be listening to tonight during my sleepless hours. The storm has disabled television and internet. So earplugs and smartphone are my only options. This is a true crime story about a possible murder in Newport Beach. Deals with themes of abuse and manipulation. I am just starting so I can't review. But it's quite compelling so far.


Till Next time-Austin and San Antonio will be the topic. Peace Out-One b













Friday, March 2, 2018

March did come in like a Lion....

So much information swirling in my mind. Notes are scattered everywhere. And today is the perfect weather to hang home and send you my thoughts. First off are my Oscar Predictions. I have seen all the movies! Let's place bets on Faye and Warren making an encore presentation-I'm betting yes, for sure.


Best Picture: Hard to pick between Three Billboards and The Shape of Water, but I'll go with Three Billboards.


Best Director: Guillermo Del Toro for The Shape of Water. Beautifully shot and brilliantly done. And, Sally Hawkins is equally deserving of the Best Actress Award. But....


Best Actress: Frances McDormand will win over Sally Hawkins, I think.


Best Actor: Truthfully, I did not think Gary Oldman was that great in Darkest Hour. I have watched John Lithgow in The Crown on Netflix, and I felt his performance as Churchill was amazing. I was not wowed by Oldman or Darkest Hour. So my pick is Timothy Chalamet in Call Me By Your Name.
However, Oldman will get the Oscar.


Best Supporting Actress: Hands down Allison Janney should win for I, Tonya. And I think she will, but Laurie Metcalf was pretty amazing in Ladybird.


Best Supporting Actor: Sam Rockwell in Three Billboards. This was my favorite performance this year. He was spectacular.


Further thoughts: I saw The Post and Phantom Thread.  Although The Post was entertaining, it was not deserving as a Best Picture Nominee.  What can I say about Phantom Thread? It could be tied as the worst movie I have seen since Stormy Monday in 1988 with Sting and Melanie Griffith; and the original Flatliners in 1990 with Julia Roberts and Kiefer Sutherland.


OK-Where to eat before the Oscars...


Osteria Giotto Cafe-Church St. Montclair. Salads, Soups, Pastas, Sandwiches to go. Parking is tough and you are only running in to pickup your takeout.  Known for their Lasagna.


Woodstack -Pine Brook. Haven't been but have heard great things. Charred Pizzas, Delicious breads, and pastas. Supposedly a nice Sunday brunch menu. Full bar. Can't wait to try!


Giovanni's-Berkley Heights. Recommended highly for dinner. Make a reservation and give it a try.


Mezze-New Mediterranean in Livingston. Menu has lots of delicious options. Open for Lunch and Dinner.


Assado-New Portuguese Steakhouse in Livingston. Exterior looks lovely. Once inside it's a bit institutional. Food was mediocre and prices seemed high. Not a great combination.


Honey's-Fairfield. Tiny dive with delicious fresh food. Great for breakfast and lunch. Loved it!


Satis Bistro-Bloomfield. This town is having a major resurgence. Little Restaurants popping up near the train station and the new apartments.  Essex Junction started the trend.  Satis has a lovely menu, a great bar, and good food.


Marcus Samuelson's B & P-Newark. A very interesting menu and a great chef. Hopefully, this restaurant will draw lots of patrons. Looks fabulous.


Zeugma Grill-Montclair. Lovely Mediterranean menu with a wine bar. A bit pricey on the entrees, but you can go and order a few appetizers. Brunch, Lunch, Dinner.


Zaferon Grill-Verona. New Persian/Mediterranean restaurant. Interesting kebabs, flatbreads, burgers and entrees. BYOB.


Noble East-Montclair. Delicious, fresh Chinese food. More expensive than most other Chinese restaurants but white glove service, hot scented towels and lovely presentation make it worth the price. Known for Peking Duck. Give T.S. Ma a break and try this!


Closed-Above in South Orange. And Al Sogna in Montclair. Stay tuned-new restaurants coming to both locations.


Places on my NYC List that I want to try:


Upland-345 Park Ave. South
Pasquale Jones-187 Mulberry Street
Don Angie-103 Greenwich Avenue
Petee's Pie Company-61 Delancey Street
Underwest Donuts-638 West 47th Street at 12th Avenue


What to watch on Television and What to Read


Mozart in the Jungle



Tuesday, February 20, 2018

You Either Get Older or You Don't-either way it's a swamppit of Mishegosh! (crazytime in yiddish)

     Recently, I traveled to Florida to celebrate my Mom's 91st Birthday. While there, my almost 94 year old dad was dealing with an Achilles tendon injury and trying to navigate walking with a cane. He was simultaneously fretting about taking a driving test and wanted me to teach him how to make a k-turn.
     In these first few moments there,  I realized that I had, now, taken on the role of parent and I was treating them as if they were my children.  I can remember my dad teaching me how to drive and now here I was teaching him. As your parents age, we experience many concerns. We want them to be safe in their homes so we install grab bars in the shower and by the toilets. We remove area rugs. We invest in lights for their tables and desks. We purchase groceries and water so they are well fed and stay hydrated. We try to teach them how to use computers and smart phones so they will stay connected with us. We buy medic alert necklaces so someone will come if they fall. And we buy them special sweet treats because we like to see them smile.
   We all fiercely cherish our independence: it doesn't matter if we're 12, 17, 30, 70, or 90. So, when people attempt to give guidance, it is very often met with defiance, anger, resistance and deaf ears(literally!). But, we also have to understand that the people trying to help and guide you (whatever your age), love you to the end of the earth, and just want to keep you healthy and safe from any harm.
   In the past several months, I have found the following help for my Florida parents-now if they would only use it!


DELIVERY of Groceries, Prescriptions, and Whatever is needed:


Instacart-Put app on phones.  Publix, Target, Whole Foods, Costco, CVS, Petco, Total Wine and others will deliver. They must be able to order from a smartphone or a computer.


Shipt-another app for your phone which delivers from many of the same stores. Again, the person must be able to use a computer or smart phone.


INSTALLATION of Grabbars, adhesive strips, and general "senior proofing" a home to avoid falls:


Atlantic HealthCare Products-located in Boynton Beach or West Palm Beach. 561-964-6767.


Mr. GrabBar  1-888-674-7222.


DRIVERS to run errands, go to the beauty parlor, transport to and from doctor appointments.


Uber-of course! But yet again, you need to be able to use a smart phone or a computer.


Gogograndparent-24/7 customer service. HURRAY-you don't need a smart phone. Any phone will do! Call them and they will take you anywhere at anytime.


HEARING DEVICES to make television watching easier:
Sennheiser, Sony, and many others make wireless and bluetooth devices to clarify and enhance the sound of television. The better ones are $300-$400. Go to Best Buy and pick their brains. Then order them on Amazon! However, you can pay Best Buy to hook up the system, which may be necessary.


OK-Now for the nirvana that gets me through my sleepless nights (because I am up worrying about my Mom and Dad)! Thank Goodness for HBO, Showtime, Netflix, Hulu, and Amazon. They are my Xanax....


Some of these I like and some I don't.


The Versace Assasination-FX American Crime Story. Very difficult to watch. A ton of violence. Don't recommend.


You're the Worst-FXX or HULU. Not a typical romcom.  Two "farbissina" (angry or bitter in Yiddish) start a relationship. Funny, clever, well written and I loved it!


Divorce-HBO. Sarah Jessica Parker and Thomas Haden Church star in this series about their divorce.
Last season was more interesting. I'm bored this season-don't waste your time.


Red Oaks-Amazon. Story is about a NYU college student who works as a tennis instructor at a Jewish Country Club in suburban New Jersey.  An amazing cast: Paul Reiser, Jennifer Grey, Richard Kind, and Freddy Roman. I absolutely loved every second! (Full disclosure: a few of my friends couldn't get past the 2nd episode.) Buy I, personally, strongly recommend!


David Letterman Interviews-Netflix. So far Letterman has interviewed President Obama and George Clooney. The interviews are compelling, funny, and mesmerizing. Definitely watch!


Transparent-Amazon.I am currently watching this now.  Judith Light is a revelation as Jeffrey Tambor's ex wife, Shelly Pfefferman. To be honest, the main plot about Mort Pfefferman becoming trans isn't so compelling. But Judith Light literally lights up the screen-pure entertainment. Worth watching just for her.


Mozart In the Jungle-Amazon. New York Symphony Maestro retires and young Gael Garcia Bernal replaces him. What conflicts ensue between them is what the story centers on. Watched the first episode and jury is still out. Didn't hold my interest, but maybe it will hold yours.


The Chi-Showtime. Danger, gangs, and life on the South Side of Chicago.  I only watched a few episodes and so far, I am not into it.


The Resident-Fox. Another medical show. A rip off of Chicago Med which I like better, Having said that, this held my interest and was an enjoyable distraction.


911-Fox. Examines the lives and careers of first responders: firefighters, police, and paramedics. Again a rip off of Chicago PD and Chicago Fire. I like the cast though: Peter Krause, Connie Britton, and Angela Bassett.  Something to watch when looking for some entertainment and you are tired of the Olympics.


Next time movies and food.....Peace out. Oneb






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Friday, January 12, 2018

A New Year to Nourish My Face, Accesorize the Fingers, Feed my Mind and Soul

✌☮☮☮☮☮FACE


Loreal Lumi Glotion-this new product by Loreal is a illuminating lotion for an all over glowing look.
It comes in 4 shades. Can be worn alone or under foundation. Compare to Chanel's Le Blanc illuminators. This is a mere $14.99. I like it!


Olay Regenerist Micro-Sculpting Cream- This is a an Anti-aging moisturizer infused with Hyaluronic acid. It hydrates and softens the look of fine lines. Compare it to Chanel's Sublimage cream.  I use it morning and night. Olay is $29.95


Acure Organics Seriously Firming Facial Serum-Great for dry winter skin and sensitive skin. Don't use too much because it can be greasy. Apply to face and neck for great hydration. Love it. And it's only $16.99.


CeraVe Therapeutic Hand Cream-my hands and heals are cracking from the winter cold and constant washing. This hand cream really feels great and seems to be helping. $3.99.


Chanel Sublimage La Crème-This is supposedly the ultimate in skin care. It claims to restore your youthful appearance. I have been using this and I will say it is a lovely product, and very hydrating. However, it is highly fragranced which I find a bit worrisome for sensitive skin.  Is it worth all the hype and $400 bucks for the small jar? I think not.  Use the Olay!


Chanel Le Blanc base Lumiere-a multi-use illuminating base that minimizes appearance of pores. I apply a few dots of this with my foundation and use a sponge to meld. It gives a bit of a glow to your skin. I happen to like the Loreal lumi glotion better. The cost for Chanel-$48.00


Looking for a Fabulous Birthday Cake for young or old? Try the Pinata Explosion Cake at the Flour Shop in NYC.  A six layer explosion cake can cost between $150-$300. Check out the Cookies and Cream and the Unicorn Cakes too. flourshop.com


FINGER


I have just one recommendation: Check out Pomellato's new Iconica line. The wedding bands in gold, rose gold, and white gold and diamond are simply beautiful.  They come in different widths and are stackable or can be worn alone. The Pomellato Boutique is at 741 Madison Ave. NYC. Prices range from $2600-$6600.


MIND
   Books
Pachinko by Min Jin Lee. This is a National Book Award Finalist. Story is a family epic touching on minorities and political disenfranchisement.  Very Relevant in today's milieu.


Anything is Possible by Elizabeth Strout. A continuation of My Name is Lucy Barton.


Lincoln in the Bardo-George Saunders's first novel. Mixed reviews: either the best book ever or a colossal disappointment. You be the judge.


My Absolute Darling by Gabriel Talent. A book about abuse. Supposedly beautifully written.


 Movies
The Post-Meryl Streep and Tom Hanks star in this Spielberg film about the timely story of the press's right to expose corruption.


The Disaster Artist-James Franco just won a Golden Globe for this true story  about the famous Hollywood Outsider Tommy Wiseau.  I can't find this in the theaters. Could it be on Netflix? 92% on Rotten Tomatoes.


The Commuter-Liam Neeson stars in this tense thriller on a commuter train. Only 62% on Rotten Tomatoes, so I'll see this one during the day without Jud.


 Television
Counterpart-Series premiere is January 21 on Starz. American Science Fiction Thriller with JK Simmons.


David Letterman's new show-On Netflix now. First interview is with President Obama. He exhibits  intelligence, balance, love for his wife and children, his mom and grandmother, and most of all love for this country. A joy to watch!


Lovesick- British sitcom about a 20 something who finds out he has chlamydia and must contact all his previous lovers to inform them. Cute. On Netflix.




SOUL
 Quotes I like:


"Of course exercise is essential for good health, But you can't outrun your fork!"  Dr. Scott Kahan


"Some of our best living is done by the people we leave behind."  Della Reese


"Each Family is unhappy in its own way."  Tolstoy


When Someone shows you who you are believe them, the first time. Not the 29th time. When someone shows you lack of integrity or dishonesty the first time, know this will be followed many many other times."    Maya Angelo


PEACE OUT



















Tuesday, January 9, 2018

Amongst A Sea OF Black Fury, A Fire Was Lit

On Sunday evening, the Golden Globes aired. Not much comment has been made on Seth Meyers performance, and in my opinion, he was perfection. He provided just the right balance of satire without being too over the top. Actually, I felt he should have had more air time. For my money, he's the best all around late night tv host.
Before I review the fashion, I have to ditto what the rest of the world was thinking- Oprah was inspiring and eloquent. (Trump should ask her to tutor him in oratory skills and vocabulary building.)This is someone who prepares, researches, and  practices speeches for days (not minutes) before she walks onto the stage. Her words expressed no divisiveness nor hate, and she made everyone feel that the future would be bright.
 Enough said-now some brief comments on the fashion of the night.


BEST DRESSED
  Jessica Biel-Beautiful Dior gown. Hair and Skin were magnificent. Perfect berry lip and smoky eye. Bulgari jewels (which were not my favorite).


  Alicia Vikander-While a bit chaste looking from the front, the Vuitton gown from the back was spectacular.


Claire Foy-Loved the Stella McCartney tuxedo.


Allison Janney-Dressed in Mario Dice (who?). Loved the dress detail. She looked amazing and her facial work is the best I have ever seen.


Halle Berry-WOW WOW WOW! At 51, this woman rocks it. Only she can get away with a black lace mini, and that face is beyond.


WORST DRESSED


Catherine Zeta Jones-Thought the Zuhair Murad gown was inappropriate for her age, the hair completely horrid, and I didn't like the Lorraine Schwartz earrings. Don't ask me why at 48, I didn't like this look for Catherine, but loved Halle Berry's short dress! 


Nicole Kidman-The high neckline and flutter sleeves didn't do it for me. Everyone's talking about her omission in her acceptance speech. She failed to mention the two adopted children she had with Cruise.


Christina Hendericks-She looked like she swallowed an elephant in the custom made Christian Siriano gown. So unflattering.....


Angelina Jolie-She always looks the same to me. Same gown, different year. Same hair, different year. The Versace gown was ill fitted and matronly. Jolie's looks like she could use some Zoloft.


Kate Hudson-Unflattering Valentino dress. Neckline too plunging. There was way to much side boobage. The headband was ridiculous! Like the Harry Winston necklace though!


Elizabeth Moss-Her performance in The Handmaid's Tale is truly exceptional. Her speech was one of the most powerful of the evening. But sue me, I really did not like this custom Dior dress on her. So unflattering - and so too, was her makeup and hair. That being said, she is one of the most amazing actresses of our time.


Emma Watson-couldn't get past those bad bangs. And the gown was pretty bad - a discarded Sally Field's Flying Nun costume.


FINAL THOUGHTS


Penelope Cruz looked sensational.
Jennifer Aniston's hair is way too blond and her face has too many fillers.
Giuliana Rancic's fake ponytail looked like it was procured from a horse's tail.
Hugh Jackman's wife looked like a drag queen (please forgive me).
Mariah Carey may very well be a man in drag (mea culpa again).
Dakota Johnson's Gucci gown was incredible. The back was AMAZING.
Sara Jessica Parker looked old. Remove the green eyeshadow and change your hair colorist.
Zoe Kravitz-simple, elegant, and oh my-those emerald earrings were the bomb!
Jessica Chastain-BEAUTIFUL!
Margot Robbie-every man's dream woman.
James Franco-he seemed reasonable normal at the globes. Where did his crazy go?